2006-07-09 08:58:16 · 35 answers · asked by mexicangurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes, that's too young.
2006-07-09 09:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by puppet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are so many things that you could be doing at that age. There really isn't any reason to rush into sex - you have your whole life ahead of you and if you wait until you are slightly more mature and expereinced with regards to physical relationships you will definitely enjoy the experience allot more - when you do lose your virginity.
It seems that you are already having doubt so I would advise you not to go through with it. I know allot of people feel pressured into having sex (as I was) but at the end of the day it is your decision.
Hopefully you will make the right one for you. However, if I had a daughter I'd hope that she would wait until she was at least 16 - though I hate to put an age on it.
Before you do have sex for the first time - you should really make sure that you made the right decision and that it is with someone you trust and care about and that they feel the same towards you.
Always remember that you can always say no - It is never too late either, even if you and the person are in the middle of it - You can change your mind whenever.
Sex is a really difficult subject to talk about, especially as a girl, as people are very quick to judge gilrs on their sexual habits.
I would suggest that you speak to someone about it - if you cannot talk to a parent (which I am sure will be very hard) try a close relative/friend or someone you trust.
When you do become sexually active - remember that you will also experience so many other emotions - It is not going to be at all like you expected. For each person it is different Remeber it is not a fairy tale or as romantic at first as it is in films.
I do hope you decide not to have sex at 12 years old for reasons that would take too long to explain.
I don't want to lecture you but please do have a long hard think about it.
You are not bad for being curious - If you don't ask, how will you ever know???
Take care sweetie.x
2006-07-09 10:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by harriette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine at 13 and I was labeled a slut untill I graduated High School. That was the only time I did it untill I was 19, but it haunted me for most of my teen years. I dont suggest doing it untill you're married. Honestly. Your boyfriend will respect you more if you wait, because he'll see that you respect yourself. My husband & I waited untill we were married and the sex is the most magical thing I've ever experienced (besides giving birth to my son) in my life. The other thing you have to think about is if you want to be a mommy at the age of 12. Even if you use a condom you can still get pregnant, those things aren't 100% effective you know. I knew someone (an ex-boyfriend) who got someone pregnant when he used a condom.
When you get older you'll understand what it means to be a child, but by then it'll be too late to get it all back. Enjoy your childhood while it's here, there's plenty of time for sex and all the other stuff that goes along with being an adult. I promise you.
2006-07-09 09:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by gorf79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what you mean by bad....if you are asking should you? the answer is definatley not. Concentrate on education not sex. Your virginity is something you are able to give one time and at 12 I feel that you are too young to make such a decision. If you are implying that someone took this from you against your will then it is not your fault, and you are not bad.
2006-07-09 09:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why do you ask a question that even your own heart tells you the truth about? Of course you know better!
Do not ever surrender your virtue! EVER! That is something that no amount of money, or sorrow, or prayer can ever return to you!
What do you think your father in heaven would want for you?
I go now to pray for your honor.
2006-07-09 09:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by yiddishlion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um it kinda depends on who u lost it with! If u really loved the person then im not sure! If ur sure that yall have feeling for eachother then maybe u got something there! But if yall werent goin out n it was a 1time thing then ppl are gonna talk about it! But shoot if u thought it was the right thing to do then it was ur choice not our, right? Who are we to judge u?
2006-07-09 10:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLY FREAKIN CRAP!!! My stepdaughter is about to turn 12 and I would beat the snot out of her if she so much as even kissed a guy right now. What is with all these young kids trying to grow up so fast??? I grew up way too fast as well and I REGRET IT!! Enjoy the best years of your life being a kid, you're gonna miss these days!
2006-07-09 09:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by lil' moma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT'S BAD!I have a daughter that is 12 and i would whip her *** if found out she was doing adult thing's.Stay a kid for as long as you can.Because once it's gone you can't get it back.And you want to do that with someone that you're going to be with for life.That way you don't have to worry about getting a STD that you may not be able to get rind of.
2006-07-09 09:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Annette H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very bad because you lose all your values and what you would have had to enjoy at the right age is gone away forever
2006-07-09 09:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you lost it. If you were raped or abused, it isn't your fault. Losing your virginity isn't anything to get worked up over, but hold on to your childhood as long as you can. 12-year-olds should NOT be having sex.
2006-07-09 09:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats too young.
there is always a chance of pregnancy or getting an std so wait to have sex until you are older and can better understand the risks
2006-07-09 09:04:19 · answer #11 · answered by sareyna85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋