HE WANTS SEX 2 -3 TIMES EVERY DAY.
HE CAN'T HAVE A CONVERSATION IF HE DOESN'T BRING THE SEX SUBJECT.
I HAVE TO SLEEP IN SHOTS AND A T-SHIRT, BECAUSE IF I WEAR ANY SEXY PAJAMAS HE SAYS THAT I PROVOQUE HIM.
***IS A SITUATION THAT I CAN HANDLE ANYMORE AND I TELL HIM ABOUT IT.HE JUST SAYS I HAVE TO PLEASE HIM.
2006-07-09 08:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by CHIQUITA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, he sounds like he may be normal to me. He will have better conversations after sex to, expecially if he's not tired beforehand.
Hopefully, he can talk to you for a while before he needs sex though. But, I think being intimate with your wife in conversation is an obvious aphrodisiac. And if your fanny is hanging out of your PJ, what do you expect?
Most men could use sex 2-3 times/day in there twenties. Bet he could do 4-5 actually.
You could tell him to do it himself...he shouldn't be so pushy as to force you obviously though. Tell him that if he really loves you he'll lay off a little, try and initiate once a day or something.
2006-07-09 08:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief.
while you gotta give yourself kudos for being so irresistible, I would say he definitely has a problem.
Part of marriage is to be sexually intimate, but he is treating it like the only important thing and the driving force behind your relationship. what about respect? or tenderness? "love honor and cherish" means to put someone else ahead of yourself.
you have been doing this by trying to keep up with his sexual appetite, but he is failing miserably by trying to badger you into more sex than you want, need or are truly willing to give. He could stifle the urge every once in a while for your sake. It can't be healthy for your body to take on that much action, or healthy for him to have his every wish granted like a spoiled child.
insist on seeing a marriage counselor or a doctor. if theres performance enhancing drugs like viagra, there should be something out there for the opposite problem.
2006-07-09 08:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straightforward with him and tell him that it hurts attempt such issues as attempting to loosen up foreplay possibly some variety of lubricant ought to help. This honeymoon section will kinda bypass yet remember sex is significant in a wedding ceremony. tell him so as that he can artwork with you possibly commence of sluggish or use his fingers first purely to loosen up you extra. He obviously loves you and should be with you some human beings come on right here complaining that their husbands favor no longer something to do with them count number your advantages your husband needs you. I also understand the soreness of this so attempt the flaws I suggested above it ought to help. Theres no such element as too a lot sex between a married couple! and congrats to you both!
2016-11-06 02:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My b/f is like that and I just don't give in to him and tell him why would he want to have sex with someone who's not in the mood or if he still wants it I say "ok lets ok but make it quick and hurry up get it done and over with" that turns him right off lol
2006-07-09 08:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you don't enjoy it? if he can see that you love him and enjoy being intimate with him, then he might slow down a bit. i don't think he's a maniac. he simply loves you and being physical with you is one way of showing it. i know some guys who think that when you need their reassurance or if you feel a bit insecure, they go and make love to you, hoping that it settles the score and that you feel loved. you are lucky because he can't get enough of you. i know a lot of women who would give anything to have their own man initiate sex once in a while. that means you're irresistible and that he's simply insatiable!if he says you need to please him, find out what his fantasy is and act it out only if you feel comfortable with it. this will satisfy him! and if you get your fair share of satisfaction, show your appreciation. this will boost his ego & self-esteem that he's got what it takes to make you happy. it is a great feeling to be desired especially by a loving husband.
2006-07-09 08:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by teta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to seek counseling. He is using sex as an escape to what the real problem is.
2006-07-09 08:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a sex addiction. Seek professional help or else he is going to try to get it elsewhere.
2006-07-09 08:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are you self if you do not want to you do not want to so draw the and say that is enough but be kind
2006-07-09 08:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man...try having it with him you obviously turn him on...would you rather him go "elsewhere"?? to fulfill his appetite???
2006-07-09 08:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start him on Prozac. It lowers your sexual drive significantly.
2006-07-09 08:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋