I 've got no job and cant get one. within weeks my moms house will be sold and I will have knowhere to live. I've got 7 serious cavities in my teeth (which give me constant pain). I've got something wrong with my back and desperatly need to see a chiropractor, I can not recover from my broken collarbone or my dislocated knee (which happend like 8 months ago) because I need to see a phisotherepest. Theres permenent pins and needles in my left pinky and wedding finger. I live with less than the basics ( go without food for up to 48 hours and when I have got it its not much more than if not just a bowl of rice). I cant sleep at night and generaly get 3 -4 hours sleep a day if that. I am so week and unhealthy it feels like I'm dying. I sit in mindless states. dont have any family or friends. $5000 debt. And I'm 21 years old. plus more problyms. My wealfare is geting cut off and I dont want to except public healthcare from a goverment that bombs innosent people ( idfeelIdidadealwiththeDevil
2006-07-09 08:16:08 · 11 answers · asked by The King 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Stop being a victim...
2006-07-09 08:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Steve D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can tell you is to get on with your life. Believe it or not, there are people in this world who have it a lot worse off than you do. Go to the unimployment office and look for a job. Take the Govt. assistance and help someone else out when you are able. Go to a food pantry or homeless shelter and get something to eat. Pay off your debts a little at a time as you are able.
Most importantly, swallow your damned pride ! We all need a helping hand up every now and then. Thats life.
2006-07-09 15:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop saying 'cant' or 'cannot' for one. You create your own reality. You may be denying help that is trying to reach you because you are creating the reality that you are helpless and there is no way out of this situation. See the opportunity in every situation. This may be an opportunity to become one with the feeling of hopelessness and fear that has been creating much of the unpleasant circumstances of your life. Acknowledge your own suffering, and accept that you are not alone. There is good in the world, and that good wants to help people like you lift beyond the limitation you are experiencing. You may need to forgive someone or something, or yourself, or let go of something you are holding on to, to move beyond your present situation. Pray and ask for what you need, and give your doubt and hopelessness to Spirit. Ask that these burdens be taken from you. You might be surprised at the response. Someone is always listening. And never, never, give up hope.
2006-07-09 15:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Peace Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'RE NOT DOING DRUGS RIGHT??? THAT'S YOUR FIRST KILLER AND THEY AREN'T FREE.
I AGREE WITH THE OTHER ANSWER TOO ABOUT SELLING YOUR COMPUTER...THERE'S A BILL TO KNOCK OFF RIGHT AWAY FOR FOOD.
I KNOW WHY I DIDN'T USED TO SLEEP. AND I KNOW WHY I DIDN'T HAVE AN APPETITE. IT DAMN NEAR KILLED ME. ALL MY ENERGY WENT TO BS AND USELESS THINGS...WHEN ALL OF A SUDDEN 10 YEARS HAD GONE BY...DEATHS IN MY FAMILY HAD TAKEN PLACE...SO MUCH IN 10 YEARS YET IT ONLY FELT LIKE 5 MINUTES...
YOU MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS...YOUR TRUE ANSWER IS HERE....CAN YOU SAY TO YOURSELF, "I HAVE HONESTLY DONE THE BEST I COULD AND TRIED MY HARDEST TO MAKE MY LIFE AS GOOD AS IT CAN BE."
DON'T BLAME WHAT YOU HAVE GOING ON TO THE DEVIL...
I WATCHED MY COUSIN OF 14 YEARS OLD SLOWLY SLOWLY SLOWLY DIE FROM LEUKEMIA AND THE LITTLE GUY NEVER COMPLAINED. HE WAS DIAGNOSED WITH LEUKEMIA AT 6 YEARS OF AGE. TRY PUKING UP BLOOD FROM LEUKEMIA ALL OVER YOUR BIRTHDAY CAKE AND STILL THANKING THE LORD TO BE ALIVE...
HE CALLED ME BEFORE HE DIED AND SAID THAT HE MUST BE ONE OF THE LUCKIEST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD...WHEN I ASKED HIM WHY, HE SAID "IT'S BEEN 6 MONTHS SINCE I'VE BEEN ABLE TO STAND UP BECUASE OF ALL THE FLUID IN MY LEGS BUT GOD LET ME STAND UP NEXT TO MY BED TODAY."
I INSTANTLY GOD A LUMP IN MY THROAT AND FOUGHT BACK THE TEARS....I FELT LIKE SUCH A SELFISH BIT-H COMPLAINING AND WHINING ABOUT THE THINGS I DO WHEN THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH REAL PROBLEMS OUT THERE....
YOU KNOW, IT ALWAYS CAN GET BETTER. YOU GOTTA START MAKING THESE CHANGES YOURSELF AND QUIT BLAMING EVERYTHING ON THE DEVIL.
AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE...YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS...SERIOUSLY
2006-07-10 12:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by PhantomLover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know of a couple of government programs, that would surely help you, but since you don't want to take any money, from the government, I guess you will have to sleep in the ditch..good luck..
2006-07-09 15:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre on f-ing welfare and youre worried about getting public healthcare b/c of the government bombing "innocent" people..you sure dont mind taking that government welfare...youre only option of not having help from the government is living on the streets..stop being a freaking moron
2006-07-09 15:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by worldsbesthighfiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight. You accepted welfare from the government but you won't accept their healthcare?
If I were you, I'd be accepting any handout I could until I was back on my feet.
2006-07-09 15:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by southerngirl84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell the computer ur using to complain to people about ur problems and go buy some food and a doctor visit.
2006-07-09 15:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by truegrit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on disability...that's something the gov't should provide for you.
2006-07-09 15:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by mx3baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a soup kitchen and chilax.. theres nothing else you can do.
2006-07-09 15:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋