I have been depressed almost everyday for the last three years. My wife of seven years is not here for me emotionally, physically or sexually, not like it should be. We split up for a year and a half and reconciled a year in a half ago. She was 33 started "dating" a guy she worked with after just one week. He was only 27. He got what he wanted and broke it off after just a few weeks. Two months later she moved in with another guy. He left her for somebody else after getting his bills payed for a year. The credit was ruined, car repossed and all. Shortly there after she decided it was time to reconcile and moved to Florida with me.The first year she went back home several times and "seen" the first guy and even "seen" him once down here. I found out called him and told him that if it didn't end that I will come see him :- ) I love her and our five year old son very much, but I am now 44 and need a wife that is true and will be here for me. Lady T says she will be... lol..
2006-07-09 08:14:17 · 6 answers · asked by mr. Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey get out of that relationship. It isn't doing you a bit of good. How do you expect to be a good father for your son? If she wanted to be true she wouldn't still be seeing the other guy AT ALL. Make your life the way you want it, and keep the people who bring you down out of it. Give yourself and your son all the love and attention you both deserve to be happy well adjusted people.
2006-07-09 08:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty obvious that she is not willing to make a change for you are her son. I would be afraid she would bring something home from these men( like a sexual disease). You are a better person than that and deserve to have a wife that is good to you as you are to her. And your son deserves to have a mother that is at home with him instead of off with everything that is offering it to her. Get out and get full custody of your son. Get into church and find a good woman that will be there for you both. They are out there. I'm not saying that only good women go to church, but God can help you and your son through these hard times if you let him. You and your son deserve to have a happy life, that includes a good wife and mother. It sounds to me like you have given her enough chances to straighten up. You have to move on and do what is best for you and your child. God Bless You, and good luck.
2006-07-09 15:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. Your situation is the same as mine. You know that she wont be there and in time, it wont get better it will get worse. I've been married for 11 and unhappy for the last 2. My guy does the same thing. I know what has to be done but there's alot to leave after so many years of your life.
2006-07-09 20:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut and lock the revolving door, you have been used long enough. Make a life for you and your son and think of you and him only for right now. When you least expect it someone will come into path that will love you and respect you.
2006-07-09 16:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dedra M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very difficult, and will be for your son as well. But it may very well be better for your son if you could find someone else.
Peace.
2006-07-09 17:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to dump your "wife". I had a sister-in-law who done the same thing to my brother. who is Lady T?
2006-07-09 15:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋