please help, she doesnt know where to find herself and what group she's in and she is going to 7th grade aka middle school aka death trap.... she has had a hard time and she used to be super ''popular'' help!
2006-07-09 08:04:28 · 13 answers · asked by Neena K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Self-acceptance is her refusal to be an adversarial relationship to herself. Self-acceptance is to accept and be comfortable with the reality of what and how one is. It doesn't mean ceasing to strive for improvement but accepting what one is while in the process of improvement. When one has self-acceptance, one can relax more deeply into the present, into the necessities of the child formed mind into life. With self-acceptance one takes life less as something ominous and serious and sees it in perspective...and with a sense of humor. With all said she just has to think and she will surpass her atrocities.
2006-07-20 08:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle School isn't a death trap,it's just a bit scary. Whoever her friends are, that is her 'group'. Don't worry about her not being super-popular,it isn't really that great being popular anyway,it constricts amount of individuality that she can show without being scrutinized by the other girls. More than likely,a lot of other girls are in her same position,so don't worry about her making friends.
2006-07-09 15:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what is the reason for her having a hard time being herself?Is it cause no one else likes it?or she just unsure what she likes?I say try a few new things and different groups being popular isnt always what its make out to be!You always have to empress someone,no one likes that.Just tell her to do and act the way she most feels comfortable
2006-07-19 21:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to what highschool is all about. She'll spend the next few years trying to find herself. I don't know anyone who knew who they were when they were 12 and if they did it just got ruined later. And then they had to refind themselves. Her whole life will start changing and she'll feel lost at times but that is what happens when you're a teenager. This is totally normal. She'll be fine.
2006-07-09 15:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...tell her that she doesnt need to be worried about being popular...just tell her to try to make friends and be herself! It doesnt matter what "group" u are in...just that u have great friends and a good time at school!
2006-07-09 15:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by <33xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? middle school is NOT a death trap! just tell her to find friends she trusts and try out everything that sounds fun. just tell her to be around open-minded people and be nice to everyone. middle school is so much better and easier(socially) than elementary.
2006-07-09 16:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell her that she must try counting on her self i think 12 is an imprtant age for girls
2006-07-22 16:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Yaman The Knight Of Darkness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her time to find some friends that share the same interests as her.
2006-07-09 15:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its easy for me to say this...but she should just be herself. do what she wants and when she wants. she shouldnt have to worry about what others think. it will get her no where in life.
2006-07-09 16:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mediwizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should always be herself never change for any one.dont try to fit in people should except her for who she is.
2006-07-23 15:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋