they went out partying and didnt go home until 4 in morning and one of her friends hooked up with a guy they met last night should i be worried they all done the same things.
2006-07-09 07:48:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not necessarily. Firstly you have to decide if you trust her or not. Secondly, I have a boyfriend, and I go out with my girlfriends for late nights and sometime they hook up with guys. Just cause they do does not mean I do (and I don't). It just depends on whether or not you can trust her (and after 6 years hopefully this is something you know) :)
2006-07-09 07:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by kneesox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you need to be worried. I occasionally go out to clubs with my friends too and have been with my guy for 8 years (we just got married last year). I would tell your girlfriend your concerns, Don't tell her that she can't go out again or she'll just feel like you are ordering her around. Instead tell her how it makes you feel (remember women are all about feelings) and that you worry that someone as beautiful and awesome as her might find some guy who is way cooler than you and run away to paris for the weekend. This will compliment her and make her laugh at the same time. Remember she has been with you for six years for a reason. I doubt she will just hook up with some random guy at a club after only just meeting him unless you guys are already having serious relationship issues.
When I go out dancing I usually just dance with my group of friends. Most of the guys at clubs are really annoying anyway and try to rub on you the whole time and act like jerks. After all that she'll be happy to go back home to her nice, sweet boyfriend.
I have danced with a couple of guys in clubs but not in a freaky touchy feely way and I always let them know I have a boyfriend. So even if she did dance with another guy it doesn't mean she hooked up with him. A lot of girls just like to go to clubs to dance and could care less if there was any guys in the place at all.
Just because her friend hooked up does not mean in any way that all of them hooked up with guys. And it just makes you sound whiney to think so. Trust your girlfriend and if this whole thing is eating away at you, talk to her about the situation.
Hope this helps. : )
2006-07-09 08:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with her for 6 years, you should know her well enough to know if she would or wouldn't hook up like that! And if you have to question it, then get out now, because you don't have a very strong relationship....Distrust and jealousy only breed hatred, take a good hard look at yourself, and at this lady...perhaps if she is the type that would do that, there is no point, and if it is just your misguided mind, you need to see why?
2006-07-09 07:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by ndussere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about your girlfriend going out with girlfriends. That's what they do. What you should be worried about is why you are living with you girlfriend without first being married.
If she is not you wife, and you are not her husband, then she has absolutely no responsibility to you. You have hired a live-in prostitute. She has room, board, and your company in exchange for your paycheck. That's it.
She's out---so what if she were to go with another guy? Maybe he made a better financial arrangement.
2006-07-09 07:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 12:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by awad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not be worried. It's good that the girls go out together, and have a good time, once in awhile.. You can go out with your friends, next time, then you won't be home alone..Trust, is what counts, if you cannot trust her, than you have nothing, in the way of a future..
2006-07-09 07:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust your girlfriend? Just because her girlfriend did it doesn't mean she did it. You either trust her or you don't but nothing you said really indicates that she did anything wrong. She was probably just out having a good time with the girls.
2006-07-09 07:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If you dont have complete trust it will not work. If you dont trust her then get out. Ask yourself the same question. If you went out would she have reason to worry. If your answer is yes then you are wasting her time
2006-07-09 07:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been her boyfriend for six years, the chances are that she is getting tired of waiting for you and is starting to hunt for a guy that will take care of her.
2006-07-09 07:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why get pissed. she was just out with old friends just because one of them is loose dont mean every one of them are my wife goes out with the girls all the time and dont get home till 2 or 3 but i trust her
2006-07-09 07:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋