im having a hard time dealing with this. how can i look past this.They mostly were all bar whores and i hate thinking of him being with so many gross women. What can i do
2006-07-09 07:47:24 · 11 answers · asked by babycakes2201 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Counseling & therapy. It will help you deal with those emotions you are feeling in a healthy way.
2006-07-09 07:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you let your husband tell you about all of the skeletons in his closest. Anything that happened before you came into his life should have stayed in his past. Just like I told one of my ex-friends he was the same way when you met him that he is now that you are married. You made the choice to marry the man knowing all of this. If it disturbs you so then you shouldn't have married him.
2006-07-09 08:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Saude! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is only with you now, and its a matter of his past, i say make sure he is clean(no std's) and forgive him for being promiscuouse, everyone has something that worries them sexualy with thier spouse...my husband has only been with me, and i have been with many(not 50)but a lot in my book, i constantly worry about him wanting to know what its like to be with another woman. but keep in mind that if these were mostly 1 nighters, he didnt care about them, and he married you, so aparently he cares for you. try to get past this in your mi9nd, dont obsess over it or youll go mad, every marriage has problems that are hard, dont let his PAST stand between you in the present.
2006-07-09 07:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what, we all have a past. my husband was with like 50 women before me too. why would you judge someone's past? the only thing that matters is that he's with you, and obvoiusly wants to be with you forever, cuz he married you.
2006-07-09 07:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Coltsgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He chosed you! So why bother about that? especially if it has been in the past. Looking at the positive side: Your husband was the men that everyone wanted :)
2006-07-09 07:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he married YOU.
Therefore, YOU saved him from a life of bar whores and hoochies.
His past is over....make his future with you beautiful.
Good luck!
2006-07-09 08:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ginny Lou the Peachy One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to assume this all happened before you married him, and say enjoy the fact it's in the past and be glad he is so experienced and can please you. Don't let the negative get the best of you.
2006-07-09 07:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have 50 partners and call it even.
2006-07-09 07:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be careful he might have caught something
2006-07-09 07:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce-its the only way
2006-07-09 07:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋