it seems my boyfreind has changed alot.He use to respect me like when i'd want him to talk to me and not other girls at the moment her would do that but now he talks to other girls online and i ask him to stop because he ingores me when he talks to them but he wouldnt listen.he use to tell me all the time i was pretty or beautiful but now he doesnt.he use to call me all the time when he said he would but now he doesnt when he says he will.he sue to say i lvoe you all the time to me but now he only says it when he is getting off th ephone or saying i love you2.the other day i was going to break up wit ihm but i could tell form his voice he was upset that i was goign to so i told him if he changed then i wont leave him and he said he will and every time i ask him if he really will he say yes should i really bealve he will.have u ever tried to change your bf back or has he ever say he will change if so how did it go?
2006-07-09 07:45:10 · 5 answers · asked by blonde ditz! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-09 07:45:32 · update #1
i belave he can change but it jsut worses me he wont i dont know what i did for him to be the way he is and he has been tellen me he loves me and he wants to be wit me but its hard because i miss who he was before and i been trien to figure out what i could of done wrong
2006-07-09 08:00:44 · update #2
You will waste your time trying to change another person. You've told him how you felt and it's up to him to want to make the changes in order to keep you around. Actions speak louder than words.
2006-07-09 07:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming he does...will it really be sincere or only because you threatened to leave.
Be careful, because he may only bide his time until he finds something else.
Bottom line is, you can't and shouldn't force someone to be what you want. People sometimes tend to get lazy in relationships. Are you still doing everything you used to do? Remember..it should always be a 2-way street. Not only what you want. Has he said why he does these other activities? Maybe there's things you need to change.
If the interest is gone, it's gone. No sense trying to keep someone around who no longer wants to be there.
2006-07-09 07:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has NOT changed he is just showing his true colors. THIS is how he REALLY is. DO NOT try to change him; LEAVE him ALONE. Women often think that they can change a man; but a man will change if and when he wants to.
2006-07-09 08:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound insecure in his love for you. If he says he is changed, then trust him unless he shows you otherwise. When you have to start whining, complaining and making demands in a relationship - it's already over.
2006-07-09 07:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋