I am 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex 1 month ago and i'm not sure if i am pregnant? In the morning when we woke up he preformed intercourse on me without a condom but it was for less than a minute because i was tired since we had just woken up. Lately i have been haveing some signs but i am not sure if it's just me? I am so hungry lately and a few days ago i haven't ate much but my stomach feels as if it is getting big? I'm a small girl and everything but is this normal for your stomach to get big after one month? could it also be possoble that i am pregnant? Someone please help!
2006-07-09 07:34:52 · 26 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What would you like us to do? Look at our magic 8 ball? Go take a test.
2006-07-09 07:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, please please tell your parents. If you are pregnant, you will need medical care for you and the Baby. I f you were my daughter ( and I do have one) I would want to know if you were in some kind of trouble so I could help you. I would wait another week or so and take a home pregnancy test, and yes I promise you these are very accurate after 4 weeks. You wouldn't show until around 3 months and you'd have symptoms already. Mine were: I was tired all the time, breasts were sore, I could' t eat meat at all and around 5 weeks, I missed my period and that's when I found out. If you're not and your just stressed from being worried, count this as a blessing and please be careful with yourself. Sixteen is really too young to be a Mother and a high possibility of raising your baby alone. Good Luck to you and I wish you the very best.
2006-07-09 10:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Misty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be possible that you're pregnant, you could be bloated, you could be suffering from PMS...go to an obgyn or get a test at your local pharmacy. Quit guessing and just find out. Oh and by the way, even with condoms the only way to avoid a pregnancy is by remaining celibate...abstinence is the only 100% way to avoid it.
Also, this pregnancy scare (if that's just what it is) may be a warning. Next time, you may not be so lucky. Are you AND your boyfriend ready for a child? At sixteen, I don't believe you are. Can you PAY for everything on your own? By having a sexual relationship you're taking on adult responsibilities. You'd better be able to handle this like an adult. Now, I don't mind paying my taxes but I do mind paying them to go help young ladies like yourself who have NO BUSINESS having sex! The world does not need another pregnant teenager! Is it so hard for you to act responsibly?
Also, has your boyfriend been checked for STD's? Are you at all concerned about AIDS, Herpes, Syphilis or Chlamydia? Do you know that some of those STD's are lethal and that others can cause you to become sterile? Think about that next time you decide it's a good time to have sex!
2006-07-09 07:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by bitto luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all I wouldn't get all out of sorts until I knew for sure. Then you can panic honey. Go to your doctor, if you don't have insurance to go alone you can always head to the local health department or clinic. They should help you. And if you are worried about you parents or someone finding out ask them to keep this confidential. Now like the other woman said this "scare" might be a warning. A great form of birth control is the Nueva Ring. It doesn't protect against STDs though. So I would still be sure to use a condom. Next time PROTECT and take care of yourself Sweetie. P.S. the home pregnancy tests usually do NOT work, even the most expensive ones. Trust me.
2006-07-09 07:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian Salgado Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a teenage girl has sex she always has to go through like a month of anxiety worrying if she's pregnant. Its so unfair. This guy put you through all this just bc he had a little morning wood. Teach him a lesson. Share your anxiety with him and let him think you're are pregnant without knowing for sure. Teach him to put on a friggin condom next time. Is it so much to ask? Then when he gets worked up enough send his butt to the drugstore for an EPT pregnancy test and find out for sure. If it's been a month, the test will be accurate and hopefully you will be able to put your mind at ease.
2006-07-09 07:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see you later as you're taking all of your pills on time the prospect that you receives pregnant after lacking one pill is small. i'd propose that in case you'll pick to be sexually energetic you should use a decrease back up approach like condoms. i understand that you're feeling that you're grown at 16, yet you're nevertheless a baby. delight on your formative years even as it lasts.
2016-11-30 22:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by radabaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are worried about being pregnant, everything seems to be a sign that you are. Chances are, your stomach wouldn't be growing yet if you are pregnant. You should be due for your period soon and that will give you a good indication. Your other choice is to take a pregnancy test.
Anytime your boyfriend penetrates you there is a possibilty that you could become pregnant - no matter how long it's in there.
2006-07-09 07:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming by one month you mean you missed your period and I am assuming you aren't on any type of birth control either.
There is a strong possibility then, even if he withdrew. I know you don't want to hear this, especially since you are so young, but you should never take chances like that. You need to get a test or go to your doctor. That's the fastest way to find out. Don't just wait, find out now and if you aren't, as soon as you have your period get on the pill or some form of birthcontrol.
2006-07-09 07:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by katcb1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're late for your menstrual period, let's say 4-8 weeks, then you start to worry! If you are afraid of getting pregnant, you should not be having sex, better yet, take a big ounce of precaution! Why don't you use some contraceptive pills? You have to learn to know the consequences of your actions! Use your head, not your hormones!
2006-07-09 07:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by shame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your stomach doesn't get "big" after one month of being pregnant. it would take at least 3 months to even begin to show. go get a pregnancy test...and for god sake, use a freaking condom. there are enough teenage mothers in this world that cant take care of their babies.
2006-07-09 07:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Coltsgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋