2006-07-09 07:29:50 · 26 answers · asked by mysterygirlx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been friends with him my whole life, and just met her a yr ago. We were on and off our whole lives. I am married too. I am not saying I want him, I just don't know what to think of my feelings... I know he feels this way about me, but I won't confirm or deny feelings for him to him.
2006-07-09 10:03:42 · update #1
Is it possible you are financially able to move away form town? You need to get away from this **** as soon as possible! DON"T GO THERE!! the fantasy is ALWAYS ALWAYS better then the reality!
2006-07-09 07:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by ssunfish 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honestly? Don't walk...RUN AWAY! RUN FAST! Trust me. I've been there and have done that. It will only lead you to getting hurt. I fell for a friends husband who claimed he was miserable, in his marriage, and yet wouldn't leave because of the kids. Your heart breaks, and your self-esteem goes right into the toilet. You deserve better, so keep away. I learned the hard way. Don't make my mistake. It hurts too much. Please...Don't act on your feelings for this guy. Do yourself, and your friend, the favor.
2006-07-09 08:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all. If you don't have an affair, no one will get hurt. If you do have an affair, you'll be happy for about 6 months (if it lasts that long), then absolutely miserable the rest of your life after your best friend dumps you, along with her husband. He will always try to make it up to his wife, and get back together with her.
2006-07-09 08:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by C.C. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the man alone and go find one of your own. Move to another state. Gouge out your own eyes. Do whatever you have to do to keep from interfering in someone's marriage. You will set yourself up for some serious bad karma if you do. What goes around comes around...
2006-07-09 07:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You BE her bestfriend,and get over what you "think"is love,and save more people than you can name,the pain that this will cause.You be a woman,and a best friend to yourself,and walk away,because you know you deserve more than that.
2006-07-09 09:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sherry H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE!
how would you feel if the situation were reversed? you wouldn't want anyone going after your husband...especially your best friend!
why do women always think they can take a man away from someone? it's so childish and WRONG!
stick to single guys. dont go after a married man!!!!!!
2006-07-09 07:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by Coltsgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK UP!!!! STOP!!!! What is your view of a friendship? You need to leave thoughts of him out of your head. There are other nice guys out there. You just probably see what they have and wish you could have it. You can, but not with him. Get over it, never disclose your feelings, and NEVER give in to them if you are a true woman and friend!
2006-07-09 07:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by tool84u_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and be an adult. You don't need anyone to tell you that what you are thinking about is just stupid. Do you have no self respect at all? Get your OWN man..
2006-07-09 07:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing!! This is your best friend!!! Dont hurt her..men come and go! Likely if he would have anything to do with you he is a dog!!! Just like you would be if you did anything with him!! Then again if you decide to go for it..maybe you deserve each other.
2006-07-09 08:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by babycakes2201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sign to move away from your friend before you ruin the relationship. Its not worth the friendship.
2006-07-09 07:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
Stop hanging with them until this crush passes. You don't want to be at the source of marital chaos.
but if they split up on their own....go for it. You have a 60% chance these days....LOL how morbid is that?
2006-07-09 07:37:50 · answer #11 · answered by painfully blunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋