Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months. While everything is going okay. The calling situation is what's geting to our relationship. It seems like I'm the one doing all the calling. Its like if I dont call him then we dont even talk. I usually call my boyfriend about 3 or 4 days out of the week. Most of the time we talk for about 1 hour. While I recently stopped calling him for an whole entire week just to see if he would call me but he didnt. He just sent me a text basically to say whats up and he mentioned that he missed me but if he miss me so much why wont he pick up the phone and call me. When I do ask why he never calls he basically says I never call him when I actually do. What can I do in this situation. Has this ever happned to you?
2006-07-09 07:14:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You need a hobby. You're too dependant on him. If it was really serious to him, he'd do more. There's no point exasperating yourself for something that doesn't even matter anyway. If he wants to do it he'll do it. If he doesn't and it takes too long, just move on or get rid of him. Easy problem, easy answer.
2006-07-09 07:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Answerer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fill your time with other things. Get up and go out, have fun! You are still young, honey. When your boyfriend sees that you are not wasting time chasing his sorry butt, then he'll want to know why. That's when you let him know that you will not tolerate his MIA behavior. I'm sure that there're plenty of other guys who'd be happy to call you. I do NOT believe that garbage about guys not wanting to talk on the phone. That's B.S!(Hey, Destiny's Child wrote an entire song about a guy who was a Bug-A-Boo. Listen to the song, girlfriend!) Let him do some of the chasing, dammit! You, more than likely, did not call him this much before you hooked up w/ him. So ease up a bit, give him a chance to miss you. If he still doesn't clean up his act, make sure that the next time he does call you that your new man answers your phone;P
2006-07-09 07:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by kaysacutie2 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING..... I had the same problem... What i did was was called him and said if you want this relation ship to work out then you have to call me more. I am tired having to call you all the time. You should be calling me... And if he doesn't understand that then hang up and down call him. If he really cares about you he will start calling
2006-07-09 07:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by r.n.b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First thing, guys HATE talking on the phone. That's why he never calls you. I've been with my fiance nearly 4 years. He's called me twice. I'm talking thorught our whole relationship he's only called me twice. Once from work, once when we first started dating. We've lived together for the past 3 years. You'll get used to it. Good luck.
2006-07-09 07:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Must say my hubby never rings me unless he needs some thing during the day. But when we dated he would only ring once in a blue moon. Blokes dont like the phone. Maybe you should leave it for a few days and see if he rings you, never know he just might. Then he will ask all the questions why you have not rung him. Which is good. Dont worry to much about it as men are not great on the phone like us women. Just wait a few days and see what happens
2006-07-09 07:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah if I don't call my gf she gets very angry. I would leave him. If it's been that long and he still doesn't call you every now and then he needs to either wake up or be kicked to the curb. Just don't call him for like a week, if he doesn't call you call him and tell him it's over, and tell him why.
2006-07-09 07:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shawny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey it just boils down to the fact that men just don't understand how females are. Females take things very personally, we have a unique sense of being " at-oneness " with other people, hence our " women's intuition ", we have a unconscious perception of the small things that go unnoticed by men.
Another thing is that we want to be " one ", to be secure with our choice of man friend.
Thus, because of all this, a small careless word ( a word that he probably forgets instantly) or
" he doesn't phone me " crushes her like a slap in the face.
Women need to reassured and men don't get the point. A guy forgets that little things mean a lot to a women and that love must have a vocal as well as a physical expression.
I thinks that your boyfriend needs to sharpen up his sensitivity.
2006-07-09 08:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 12⤊ 2⤋
He may have another girlfriend so he can't call you but when you call him he may go into another room or out side.Try to spend more time with him and see what happens for your self good luck.
2006-07-09 07:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Boyfriend Never Calls Me
2017-02-27 06:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz maybe he doesn't like to talk on the phone, most guys won't call u just keep calling him and let it go. guys don't do that. he's a guy they operate weird anyways sweetie. u should know that.
2006-07-09 08:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by headbanger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋