I like a boy and he's going into be in my new class but my best friend likes him too, and she's going to be in my new class, so how can I tell her I like him without freaking her out!
2006-07-09 07:09:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her. Your making the assumption that he is going to like you back, and really he might not. So why not just let her like the boy too. Besides that you should put the friendship before any boy. Your friends will stick by you, but the guys you like will change and change until you are happy.
2006-07-09 07:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Angeleyes, First of all if she's your best friend she will understand ?who saw him first you or her? If you make the first move on him and get him b/4 she does oh well!!! But if she gets him first than you will have to accept that too.. If I were in your shoes I would like some competition but not to hurt her only to see which one of you would he pick first Good Luck
2006-07-09 14:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by La-India822 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would she freak out if you like the same guy it just means u 2 have similar taste in guys an theres nothing wrong w/it if shes your best friend she shouldnt care an wont let a guy come between you
2006-07-09 14:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend will understand if she is truly ur friend.
And I hope u also understand that ur friend likes him too.
The boy would choose over u or ur friend. First find out if he likes one of u.
But b4 that u have to tell ur friend.
This exact thing happened to me and I told my friend I liked him in a kidding way and she called me man stealer in a funny way.. We got over it and remained bff!!!!!
The guy doesn't even noe I exist......
She got over him and moved on to another guy!!
Do the same thing...
It'll work out in the end! ;]
2006-07-09 14:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Maria_missing_you♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out how much she like him and tell her how much you like him. dont ever let a bloke come in the middle of to mate it dont work you will lose yours friendship if you start going out with this bloke.
and if/ when you spilt with this bloke you will not have a mate to be there for you.
trust me i know
good luck and take care
2006-07-09 18:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight and hope for the best if she breaks ur friendship bc u like him too then shes not worth being your friend if he likes u too then good for you but if he doesnt like you then hes not ur real love
2006-07-09 14:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by INLUV4EVUR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely have to talk to your friend otherwise she will think you are going behind her back. discuss the issue and see who can have the first go, and dont feel bad if you lose out - there are plenty of fish out there.
2006-07-09 16:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by wills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um scuse IM THE BEST FRIEND and even though im a year younger than cj (angeleyes) i never knew she fancied him by the way i am kinda freaked
2006-07-11 12:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by :)☮♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it. I am in the same situation now.
I say I like all the boys, butthat one inparticlar. Then they think you just admire him. Slip it in secretly.
You see the lucky thng is, he likes me!! not her !!
2006-07-09 14:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Buffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot her then u have him all to yourself but then again u can always just cut her head off but then again u can bury her alive or then again u can stab her then again u could burn her but then again u can hang her but then again u could kick her in her balls cause u dont know if she has them or not so u could do that to tell if your friend is realy a guy but he is just dressd up like a girl to be gay or u could just give me 2POINTS
2006-07-09 14:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋