my best friend thinks that her b/f is cheating on her and she wanted to know how she could really tell if he was w/o asking him. he has been really moody with her and some chick answered his cell the other day but she said she was his sister. my friend went to ask him about it and he hurryed up and got off the phone. then he got mad that she called him. i just need a lil bit of ur thoughts on this so i could help her.
2006-07-09 06:40:16 · 14 answers · asked by Kelsie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She already knows. If she is suspecting it and has any serious doubts then she should trust her feelings. He is cheating it sounds like. She doesnt need more proof. Tell her to dump him asap.
But if you want to have some fun here is one way that works: the GF of the guy needs to have another girl that she is friend's with call him. It needs to be a girl that has a voice that he doesnt recognize. Also the girl who calls him needs to talk and sound stupid (think duh duh dumb and bubbly, happy voice). Have the girl call him (while the GF listens) and make up some fake story like "hey this is Ali. Dont you remember me? We met at a party" or wherever the GF knows he hangs out with or where. Like "I'm a friend of (insert guys name, friend of that guy)" And then just keep up a conversation describing how you look. Make it up. Like you are 5'8" and blond, etc. Or whatever he would like. And then ask him to hang out (acting as the random girl calling him) and if he agrees and flirts with you then he is not being faithful.
I did that prank to tons of guys and the ones who arent faithful with flirt like crazy with the strange girl on the phone they dont know. I even had one guy (who was suppose to not be single!) say he wasnt single and invited me (a complete stranger) over and was trying to give me directions. Then my friend (the guy's GF) call back and ***** him out and dump him. His friends were in the background laughing so hard and making fun of him that I pranked him so well! It was hilarious (my friend was of course pissed though, finding out he isnt faithful).
2006-07-09 06:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even though we do not know him and have never spoke with him or even seeng him... my answer is hells yeah... he cheating.... a man that gets mad when his girl call and have girls answering his phone are most likely to be cheating... men may not be all the same as far as other things like manners and etics but when it comes to cheating honey they all are cut by the same pair of sissors tell your friend dont waste her time.. tell her to move on and find someone who is not going to get pist with her for something as petty as to make a simple phone call in case she doesnt knows boyfriends should get happy when you call them not the other way around...be a friend and tell her this... good luck.
2006-07-09 06:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 worngs dont make a excellent ok. i dont care if this guy changed into the bottom on the low, u dont slump to his element (or meant element). because the minute u tell that lie , u will loose all credibility. telling someone u r pregnant and then asserting it turned right into a lie is a severe element. it is going to advise to me that u areimmature and may make me difficulty if we were given right into a conflict of words u may pull those little video games to make me fel undesirable. he will go away u if u do pull this stunt believe me. th eone element adult men dont like is being lied to about being pregnant and w/ u 2 not being married he gained't post w/ it.. i'd too. taking section in video games in a courting is not in any respect a competent theory because someone continually receives damage. if ur that drained of him flirting w/ females u opt to inform him quite and tell him to end. if he doesnt u opt to opt for if this courting is for u. ur not married to him. continually take care of urself w/ understand and uphold ur moral values.
2016-11-01 12:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by awad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has SOMETHING to hide if he got mad. The point that he got mad just because she called him that should tell your friend that she needs to leave him. Some of the thing woman are willing to put up with is beyond me.
2006-07-09 06:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by john l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend already knows it , the obvious signs are there, now she just needs to decide what her self worth is, Whether or not she's going to go through life and be at the mercy of someone else's need/wants, or is she going to choose a path of respect, and dignity for herself, and not allow ANYONE to abuse the PRIVILEGE of being in her life.You see we get so caught up in our emotions and what we want out of a relationship to be, that we tend to settle for any kind of affection that is giving to us...it takes more than Affection, and the infamous words" I Love You" to make a relationship work , it takes a person actually demonstrating that love consistently...Good luck to your friend.
2006-07-09 06:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Persistent lies are generally the biggest indicator. Changes in daily routine, special attention to one's appearance, working late, frequent unexplained or poorly explained trips and unusual fragrances can all be indicators of unfaithful behavior.
2006-07-09 06:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep asking the same question over and over and if you get a different answer he is cheating.
2006-07-09 06:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by BIG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well thats hard to answer but ur friend needs to follow her insticnks tell her to be careful and follow her heart
2006-07-09 06:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by R.E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter, there is no magic way to tell, but you sound too young for it to matter that much anyway. if she thinks he is thats enough because she obviously doesnt have enough faith in his character to be with him in the first place. and if she can't ask him they don't have any kind of relationship anyway.
2006-07-09 06:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did I not see an episode on "maury " about this ... hmmm everything he has on his shows is either this or whos the dad type of thing ...maybe watch the show it might give you some advise.... but if you ask me your friend should dump him ...I find their is alot to be said about womens intuition !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 06:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋