all the time...most of the time i like it because of the power I have...but sometimes...I wonder...is it because of my good looks or do they find me to be an intelligent person who happens to look good and dress provocative and sexy (slutty/trashy/classy)... i find myself a much higher caliber of person that the guys who hit on me.
How can I tell what is real. do they really love me or is it my good looks.
2006-07-09 06:35:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
actually i like the power and contol i have over a man when i make him hard...i can make him do anything for me, then ignore him if i want and he comes back for more of the same treatment...I have all kinds of power of men when they are hard and they come back for more no matter how bad i treat them
2006-07-09 06:40:47 · update #1
If you REALLY wanted to know whether or not your personality and intelligence were attractive, you'd wear your baggy sweats and find out. Obviously, you don't have enough belief in yourself to bother.
Many, many ugly girls have more self-esteem than you exhibit. Sadly for you, they'll still be happy when your looks change, and you feel terrible.
2006-07-09 06:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, how you dress reflects what you are. If you dress like a tramp, you must be a tramp. From what you have written, you already know the answer to your question. No, they don't find you to be an intelligent person. They think you are easy and they want what you are advertising.
As for being 'a much higher caliber person than the guys that hit on you', I doubt that. Most of the, trampy, females that I have met aren't of a high caliber at all. A tease is a tease, period!!
I think you like the fact, that you can have men panting after you. But don't give yourself too much credit, any woman can have a man panting like a dog, if they expose themselves. Most of us are just above that type of behavior. So, get over yourself, you have the same thing as every other female. It's nothing you've done, God did it. So, instead of praising yourself, try praising God for the 'great things He hath done'.
2006-07-09 06:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with your looks, but the way you're dressing gives off the slutty trend. Dress like a slut and you're treated like one. As for your power, don't believe it, they come back for more because you're giving them something to come back for--we aren't stupid here. Your "good looks" went down about 99 notches with your lack of humility and your power trip crap, and you definitely are not high-caliber....you're lowest of the low for being a user! If you want real, then cover your rear, dress like a lady, and dump the ego trip.
2006-07-09 06:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can dress how you want.. Its your attitude and out look and the way you handel your self, if your acting like a whore then you will get treated like one, dressing sexy or even slutty is only a small part of it.
2006-07-09 07:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do that because those girls are easier to approach cause they are all flirting with us. But in the long run they will want to be with the shy nice girl, which i pick over the loud ones in the first place. You just need to find the right guy.
2016-03-26 22:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not showing intelligence in this question smart girls do not have your filthy mouth so i see a foul mouthed sleazy dressed girl who is asking for sleazy boys to look at her and even try to go out with her and believe me they are expecting sex when you dress and act this way,until u change you will have lots of trouble with girls and the boys do not respect you like this.
2006-07-09 06:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you sleep with every man that flirts with you then yes that makes you a whore. And if you do then men aren't the stupid ones for comeing back for more it's you that is leaveing yourself as a prostitute.
2006-07-09 06:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the really young guys would come back to you for more bad treatment. The more mature guys would leave you the moment they realize that you don't put out.
2006-07-09 06:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with good looks or love the guys that hit on you are wanting what's under your little mini skirt .
2006-07-09 06:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dress like a whore then guys think you will do something strange for a piece of change
2006-07-09 06:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by diablodow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋