2006-07-09 06:34:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
The hell with everybody in your class. Be direct and ask the boy out. Looks really aren't worth anything at all. At your age people may think so but as you get older you'll realize they are not. I am a very good looking guy and hated the fact that in high school and college girls wanted to date me because I am good looking. I am also very intelligent and a good athlete and I don't want to sound stuck on myself but a very good catch. I never slept around and dated very few girls. I am now lucky enough to have met a woman much like me. I am very happy because I waited for someone I wanted to date and not somebody my friends or society wanted me to date. So often in youth people won't date someone because they are afraid what their friends will say. Even though they may really want to date that someone. If your friends harrass you for who you date then they really are not worth having. Be yourself. . .be proud of yourself. . and ask the boy out. Maybe he wants to date you as well. If he doesn't feel the same as you. . . well. . .at least you tried. If he won't date you because of what his friends will say. . . well. . .then you shouldn't waste your time on a shallow person like that anyways. Good Luck.
2006-07-09 07:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible! In my day, we didn't let ppl KNOW we thought they were ugly. People can be so cruel! Odds are, you're not ugly at all, and they're just being mean, so gather up what shreds are left of your self confidence first, recognize that they're all ignorant shrews who wouldn't recohnize beauty if it bit them, know that you're worthy of having him say yes.
That said, if you're too shy to ask your guy in person, write a letter. That's what I did when I asked out my first boyfreind, and it worked. I wrote it like a riddle, so that if he was interested in me, and had been paying attention to things I had said to him, and thinking about me as much as I was thinking about HIM, he'd know it was me right away, but if he didn't even know I existed, he wouldn't know it was me, and would just see it as a secret admirer. It worked like a charm. He left me hanging for about a week, then put a rose on my desk when I wasn't looking.
It might not work, or might not be your style, but @ least it's a step up from "check yes or no"
2006-07-09 06:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was never real good at being the one to ask the guy because of being shy. And I look back at the opportunity's I missed. So you should ask this guy, and have it in your mind if he says no that its okay , and if he says yes have an idea where and what you would like to do. Ignore those snobs in your class and go for what you would like for yourself. Who knows this may be the boy you'll marry someday. Good luck sweetie.
2006-07-09 06:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats a hard 1 if you ask and get knocked back it might be embarasing but if you dont ask you will never know will you if it was me i just say hey do you fancy going out for a walk and talk hell we might even get a burger and fries what do you think my treat good luck oh and just for the record id rather go with a less atractive person whos nice that a cold good looking person most people would , ps dont take any notice of your class mates ok
2006-07-09 06:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by gazza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're not ugly! Don't listen to what others say..most of the times they are just mean. Why don't you let him ask you out?
2006-07-09 06:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just be your self and ask him out dont let people tell you that you are ugly ok just be kind to him and let the rest just flow ok if he likes you then girl go for it and have fun ok and if you start by asking him what he like in girls and ask what type of things he like to do if you have some thing in comman then you are ok with ok girl go for it and if he say yes then you now that the other girls are going to be all over him but you can stop them and say that he is yours and only yours girl hold on to him ok
2006-07-09 07:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him do not give in to the people that think he is ugly,if you like him ask him you might become friends forever.
2006-07-09 06:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, it really is unhappy that your buddy is going by using this variety of demanding time. i imagine that the first element that she needs to do is figure on her self esteem. once you do not sense reliable about your self, human beings can see that. it ought to correctly be making it demanding for adult men to frame of mind her. Does she like wearing the headscarf? i have seen a variety of of females wearing them and that i have not regarded at a lady and concept, oh she'd be fairly really if she wasn't wearing that. not once. i imagine that your buddy needs to furnish herself some extra credit. If this guy would not like her because of a few thing that small, then he fairly isn't properly worth it, is he?
2016-11-01 12:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by awad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what ,it dosent matter if your not the hottest chick in class,to impress someone
i bet there are people ugly than you in class or atleast in your school.i like to advice you that to keep it cool.not to run into conclusions n run into the wrong guy.read his mind n not his body .im sure ull suceed
2006-07-09 06:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by JIJO G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that one boy doesn't think you're ugly, then does it matter what everyone else thinks?
2006-07-09 06:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by SADFHorde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋