2006-07-09 06:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Chroi 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
try different positions, different stimulations (satin sheets, adult movies, feathers, leather, whatever)...see if some of these things dont give you the added visual stimulation you need during sex. you also may be suffering from anorgasmia, which alot more women than you think suffer from. it may just be very difficult for you to have an orgasm.
2006-07-09 06:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by stascia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have a "problem". A lot of women and men believe that a woman's pleasure comes from intercourse or internally. Somewhat like a man, our clitoris is where blood accumulates when we are aroused or it is stimulated. Very few women can have an orgasm by intercourse alone. A flexible toy that can fit between your body and your partner's can do wonders. No toys? Try different positions where you or your partner can manually stimulate your clit while you are having sex. If you have a really open and "mutual pleasure" sort of partner, talk to him about an extra orgasm. It has been proved (imagine those studies!) that women who have an orgasm before they have intercourse find it easier to have an orgasm during...and it's often more intense. Don't underestimate the power of your senses. Women are generally more able to find pleasure in all 5 senses, not just touch. Use a scent on your sheets that turns you on, try something tasty on your partner (or vise versa), watch an erotic or romantic movie or some sensual music. Have fun with it!
2006-07-09 13:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rhodes35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you orgasm with a tongue, or your finger. If so make sure you have clit stimulation during intercourse. Plus just relax and enjoy sex and dont worry to much about the big O.
2006-07-09 13:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by bridgesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your man to stimulate your clitoris while sex..you will have an orgasm if he does it right..doggy style sex helps if you want a vaginal orgasm..ask ur man to find your g-spot..get him to insert his finger and move it as if he is asking you to come here..its within 3 inches of your vagina..he can stimulate it for you during foreplay..still no luck then you can ask him to give you oral sex..keep trying...goodluck!
2006-07-09 13:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by ryan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably not getting enough clitoral stimulation..try other positions..such as you on top facing away..ect or have your partner or you for that matter massage your clit while you are having sex..that might help..good luck
2006-07-09 13:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you may need practice and some extra special attention. you can do the practicing yourself and you will need a patient partner.
2006-07-09 13:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tom B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine what it feels like when u r masturbating and then apply that to when you have sex. concentrate on the feelings.
2006-07-09 13:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by koifishlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you're ok during oral? Then honey, you're normal! : )
2006-07-09 13:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋