She dated my ex, and I wasmad at her for doing so.
2006-07-09 05:44:54 · 16 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yeah... she's your best friend, you should be able to talk to her about anything!
2006-07-09 05:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that your the one with the problem. Key word here is ex-boyfriend. To me and most likely to her that means that he is now fair game in the dating circles. However, if you were still going out with him when she did, then you have a right to be mad. But if you were not then all bets are off. I think I would have asked you if I did not know for sure you had broken it off, but if you had told her it was over, then she did nothing wrong and she should not be at fault. But then I am a guy and look at things different your ladies do.
2006-07-09 05:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by redhotboxsoxfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don’t tell her.
For her to be able to date your ex with out telling you means she was never your friend in the first place.
If you tell her then she’ll have a reason to stay way from you and make it look like you’re the one with the problem.
Just let it go.
And consider her not your real friend. Real friends don’t do that to each other.
Wish her well and just forget it.
If she then brings it up… be very diplomatic bout what you say. But be sure to let her know that while it doesn’t bother you that she’s dating your ex…. That you’re a little puzzled as to why she’d keep it from you. Listen to her explanation and just let it go. Cos if you react.. You’ll have just given her the best excuse to make it look like you have a problem. (Jealousy)
2006-07-09 06:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to be offended with her dating ur ex-boyfriend cuz u said he is (ex). he might be as a friend or u just u don't have to care about it.
but to be honest , if i were u i would really be offended.
i can't blame u .so i think u have to go over it and try to think logically cuz u really don't have any rights on him .
i'm not gonna tell u to wish them the best but it would be great if u can.
good luck for u
2006-07-09 05:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by oomx555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy above pronounced "do no longer date your buddy's exes" and that i comply with a element yet fact is: in case you carry out with the same circle of acquaintances and additionally you have customary one yet another a protracted time, actual everyone seems to be going thus far human beings's exes. it quite is purely life. you are able to attempt to circumvent relationship the ex boyfriends of your close acquaintances yet once you like somebody and that they such as you, does it easily matter who they dated till now? till you date a virgin, all people you date might have dated somebody else quicker or later. So what difference does it make if it grew to become into your buddy? She isn't with him anymore. it would be one difficulty in the event that they broke up like 2 weeks in the past. in the event that they went out a protracted time in the past she quite shouldn't supply 2 craps who he dates! that's no longer any of her employer what her ex does. If he does not care and neither do you, it quite does not matter what his EX female buddy thinks! you have customary this guy a lot longer than her, purely as you pronounced. whether this grew to become into no longer the case, you reside in a unfastened u . s . a .! you are able to date whoever you want. If she grew to become into this variety of good buddy she may be chuffed for you. possibly it quite is robust which you recognize what sort of individual she is. in case you adore somebody and that they love you, no longer something gets between that. in case you tell him or in case you do no longer is yet another matter. in case you think of it is going to by some skill develop your courting, then tell him. in case you think of it is going to create drama possibly it quite is extra helpful to circumvent conversing approximately exes. it is HER difficulty, no longer yours or his. If he ever brings her up possibly purely point out casually "Yeah she texted me...yet i such as you and that i do no longer care what she thinks!" and take it from there. appropriate of luck!
2016-12-10 06:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and then she would become an ex-friend.
There is a boundary line that females friends do not cross. And in my opinion, she crossed it!
2006-07-09 06:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difinitely tell her that your mad at her...but at the same time dont expect her to leave him just because you are mad at her. That is a completely different subject.
2006-07-09 05:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Linda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah you tell her ...But you do know that she really didn't consider you as her best friend.Because if she did she would never date one of your ex-boyfriend.
2006-07-15 13:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by sexyblackgal29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the key word is EX. I would just let her know that it hurt your feelings because you don't want her to get hurt...unless you are just jealous.
2006-07-09 05:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamweaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not a true friend-let alone "best"friend,you can do better than the both of them.
2006-07-09 05:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your EX BF why would you care?
2006-07-09 06:22:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋