this is just a question in general.......it does not pertain to me...i need to help another friend
2006-07-09 04:30:10 · 16 answers · asked by heidi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say it would be the boyfriends responsibility to tell her. You screwed up your friendship with her, baby or not, but he was the one that had the responsibility to be faithful in their relationship. If you possess the courage to do so, the two of you should tell her together. Don't expect it to turn out well... and if you and the boyfriend end up in a relationship, don't expect that he will be faithful to you either. Blunt but honest...
2006-07-09 04:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so sad----why would anyone sleep with his best friend to begin with? Furthermore, there seems to be a profound lack of self-respect and a profound lack of respect for the friend.
If I was in this situation, I would see to it that I get an abortion, and I also would break off the friendship with both and not say nothing, because it is my business. Everything else will only lead to much pain and suffering. What a betrayal from the girl to her boyfriend, and what a betrayal from his friend---no, I just would get an abortion, end all communication(with both), and try to find people in my life who are trustworthy.....
2006-07-09 04:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people insist on messing in someone else's relationship for one thing! confirm the pregnancy first I would suggest ... how is the relationship between "you" and your friend? if you are really close, this will probably kill your friendship but hiding something like that will cause bigger problems later . . . even if there is no baby involved, "you" need to stay clear of the boyfriend and fess up to the friend . . . think long and hard before you want to jeopardize a friendship over sex . . . . it isn't worth it
2006-07-09 04:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very carefully. What will happen is the friend will realize she's been betrayed by 2 people she cared about. That's not going to be easy to take...and rightfully so.
Wait until the person really knows she'spregnant. If she's not, she still owes it to her friend to tell her what happened. Both her and the guy deserve to lose the friends trust, so just take your chances.
2006-07-09 04:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait till you are sure of pregnancy. If not pregnant - never, ever tell. Telling a friend of this betrayal is only to ease own consiousness. It is hurting the friend. Make sure also that sexpartner never, ever tells.
If there is pregnancy, you have to tell. Both have to tell her together. She will probably not want to have anything to do with both afterwards - and that is OK.
2006-07-09 04:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words fail me ... With friends like you who needs enemies. Edit: After digging by potential of your previous solutions to others questions i'm hoping he drops you purely like the skank that you're and also you're left to toughen this brat by employing your self. Now run alongside and do your contemporary activities homework extremely of being a bloody troll.
2016-11-06 02:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not tell until she knows there is a baby for sure. I would not consider her a friend. She might do the same to you.. be careful.
2006-07-09 04:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't tell her unless you are really pregnant. When you do tell her, expect to have one less friend. She will probably hate you forever for doing that. Good Luck
2006-07-09 04:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing she can do is tell her. But it will come to light sooner or later. The longer will make it harder and make her hate more
2006-07-09 04:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a looooonnngg way down the street.
2006-07-09 04:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋