If you dont want teen mums on benefits and free houses etc why not encourage abortions instead of insiting they have the kids, withotu telling them the small print like they can't do parties and clubbing and social life etc...
you can't complain anbout teen mums wanting to axct their age and do things others their age do when you made them have the kid instead of getting rid of iot like nothing happened...
Likewise is it not thwe anti abortionists that wont let graphically explicit sex ed, condom machines in secondary schools, morning after puills available in schools and elsewhere for free, and complain against suggestions to put teen girls on the pill...
So there fault the needed the abortion in the first place, which you stopped then complain about them getting on benefits, houses and wanting to be irresponsible... er teenagers. not supposed to be responsible.
So Why not make better sex ed, contraception, MA pills and if it fails encourage abortion not having kids?
2006-07-09
04:09:14
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The fact that teenagers are screw ups is why I say they should be on injects as they can't forget that all the time...
You are right they can't be trusted with pills hence mum having a bit more brains and experence taking them for their injection as soon as they start eyeing up boys... (likewise male pills and injections soon)
Then worry about the condoms for deseases...
Affection is not immoral...
And girls are not whores as not accepting payment... go look up a dictionary.
Fertility and hormone levels alone affect promiscuity...
you dont sleep around as you are all shriveled up and menopausal and out of eggs and hormones. Plus jealous the young girls get it all
2006-07-09
04:20:22 ·
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Those preaching absteinance and thinking teenagers are likly to do this... okay some might and then get so frustated they go wacky...
But with most its as sensible to try and telll your pet cat to feed the birds and be best mates with mice.
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ie totally unnaturalll...Go study biology... Hormones are highest and fertility during teen years... hence older guys fancying younger women.
Hence all the guys being competative and aggressive.
Hence teen girls choosing skimpier clothes... Its not the meida its they own bodies dicating to them what they should be doing by creatign natural needs...
its nature not morality.
Its what nature genetically programmed us to do so we could have kids, then become grannies before we died around fourty... Before medicine etc was invented
2006-07-09
05:30:15 ·
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Plus the evidence and statistics show while abstienance teaching may dely things a little... all that happens is a pressure cooker effect that when it blows, the teen will have sex by the bucket load and not use contraception so are more likelyt ot get pregnant and get stds... just a little later.... Whilst those brought up to use contraception and tend to mature better, do things right from the word go and forfill their biological needs safely
2006-07-09
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Mikail Morality is dont be mean, dont bully and whilst at it dont burn nice doctors alive at the stake... your moral christin world ie the middle ages was a blood bath of mass murder of real people
So dont start on the morality
2006-07-09
05:35:09 ·
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cOLLET YOU DON'T GET IT... BEING A TEENAGER IS GROWING UP AND LEARNING TO BE RESPONSIBLE BY TRYING THINGS OUT AND SEEING HOW THEY WORK... THATS WHY THEY NEED ADULTS TO GUIDE THEM AND HELP THEM BECOME ADULTS...
YOU CAN'T GO FROM KID TO ADULT BY MAGIC
2006-07-09
06:32:09 ·
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Tiffany... Im actually on your side... read it better...
Saying teens are irresponible is not meant as an insult its saying you can't help it as growing up and that will change as you learn thats all.
Its also saying its not you fault as thwe adults should have looked after you
2006-07-09
06:35:37 ·
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FIRSTLY GET THIS INTO YOUR HEAD...
CHILDREN DO NOT HAVE FULLY FUNCTIONAL SEX ORGANS... TEENAGERS DO.
POST PUBERTY THEY ARE NO LONGER CHILDREN, PRE TEENS, MID TEENS, LATE TEENS BUT NOT!!!!!!!!! CHILDREN.
THEY WILL NOT THINK AND FEEL LIKE CHILDREN...
THIS DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE FULLY FUNCTIONAL ADULTS.
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AND TO THE MORONS WHO ACTUALLY THINK YOU CAN ACTUALLY PROMOTE OR ENCOURAGE SEX BY PROVIDING THE SAFETY OR CURE...
£10000000000 BET THAT YOU CAN CONVERT GAYS WITH PLAYBOY AND A PACK OF CONDOMS...... LIKEWISE YOU CAN CONVERT STRAIGHT GUYS INTO GAYS WITH MALE PORNO AND A PACK OF CONDOMS...
I CHALLENGE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
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AS FOR MORLAITY GET THIS INTO YOUR HEAD...
HAVING SEX IS NOT IMMORAL, BULLYING, OVER COMPETITIVE BEHAVOUR IS...
IE MUGGING, RAPING ETC.... SLEEPING AROUND IS NOT IMMORAL.
2006-07-09
22:27:20 ·
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ADOPTION IS AWFULLL...
KIDS FEELING THEY ARE WORTHLESS AND ABANDONED...
OFTEN ABUSED
MOTHERS FEELING BAD THEY HAD TO ABANDON THEIR KIDS AND FAMILY BREAK UP WHEN IT ALL COMES OUT...
GIRLS ARE NOT THEIR TO HAVE LIVES WRECKED TO PROVIDE BABIES...
THE FOETUS IS WORTHLESS ALL THAT MATTERS IS THE GIRL IE YOUR FRIEND, YOUR SISTER, YOUR DAUGHTER...
NOT WHATS INSIDE THAT WILL ULTIMATELY HURT HER...
AS YOU DIDN'T FIX HER SO SHE COULD NOT GET HURT.
2006-07-09
22:29:12 ·
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Well I think contraception is the key....because no mattter how much education you try to give them, they will just do what they think they have to do, even though they are far too young.
Sadly, sex for many young people now is just an act...it has no real meaning (what a shame)
Put all girls on the injectable form of contraception...no pills to have to remember to take. Educate them to never do it without a condom being used! I think the morning after pill is a good idea...why not? its not abortion, just peace of mind.
In Australia, the government now gives AU$4000 for every new baby born. Thats completely crazy and just encourages young girls to get pregnant, making adoptions very rare.
You cannot force or encourage abortions..not in a civilized society.
Prevention is the only real answer....contraception or abstinence.
2006-07-09 04:57:17
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answered by Petra_au 7
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First of all, not all teens are irresponsible, contrary to most of your beliefs. Some teens actually understand the risks and are careful, but still accidents happen! I don't know any teen that has kids to get free houses or anything like that. You can't force girls to take the pill, that's just plain immoral! Everybody has the right to choose what they want to do, wether that be taking the pill and being protected from becoming pregnant or not. In my case, I believe that killing an innocent soul just cuz you screwed up is just plain wrong. The only way I support abortions is if the pregnancy will put your health in danger or if it the pregnancy is due to rape. But, that's my opinion- everybody has the right to have their own opinion and their own views on the topic. I just don't think you guys should be saying that all teens are irresponsible.
2006-07-09 04:47:49
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answered by CrazdSquirel 3
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Here Joey, you are too opinionated and i wish you could have the power to change things because i actually agree with some of what you've put but you cant change the world and the way in which people do things. Its like saying why dont we then just take the girls internal sex organs away?"! It's not just the girls its the boys, they are just as irresponsible.
Promoting protection in school is just like promoting under age sex. It is unacceptable to be allowing this to go on. It should not happen period... Parents can only do so much to keep their children safe, if they wanna go out and have sex they will anyway they can.
It's the children who should be made responsible. If they are grown up enough to have unprotected sex then they should be made aware that they equally should be responsible to bring these babies up. I dont know that abortion is the answer. It has to start at home. Some need to skill up on what to do once the situation arises.
2006-07-09 19:38:33
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answered by Scatty 6
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You wicked person. If you resepcted life, even a little bit then you might realise that human life is very important - every single one of us.
The reason why they get pregnant so early on is because they all think that thats their only vocation in life, they cant see how they can do anything else... they also think children are sweet quiet little things.
Not every young person wants to have sex, not every young person wants contriception shoved down their throats. Some young people just want to be loved and dont know anything different but to play the social system.
Yes, condoms should be put in school toilets. But this is there if they want to take them - not because some idiot made them.
You've also got to think of religion.
Perhaps if we teach YPs that they are wonderful, that they CAN be someone before being a parent then maybe we'd encourage them to see the the beauty inside them.
idiot.
2006-07-09 08:18:16
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answered by Wicked Top. 3
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Why not simply learn to say 'no'. Abstinence works, there isn't anyone, even teens, who aren't able to do this, and it shows how mature and sensible you can be rather than being pressured by peers to participate in something that holds such serious consequences. Sex education is essential, schools have a duty to provide this and they should be more efficient at this, but so do parents, so it's adults who are failing the teens. If in doubt, cross you legs and say 'no' and don't be intimidated by the idea that all your mates are having sex, coz actually most of them won't be even if they say they are!
2006-07-09 04:34:52
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answered by Anna V 3
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These teens should not be putting themselves in that situation to begin with, maybe they should stop ******* and if they are going to **** use protection, not only are they getting pregnant but that is why the epidemic of AIDS will never end, because all these little girls seem to have been taught no morals or values by their parents and they are whores by the age of 10!!! What an easy way out, **** without protection get pregnant, and kill it... At that rate they will be using abortion as a contraceptive.... Girls need to learn how to be WHORES...
2006-07-09 04:14:32
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answered by Snowwhite 3
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It is so unfortunate that we can have adults -like this- who'd rather recommend unGodly act to the child.
Despite all the remedies towards making the child loved and cared for and not spoiled and destroyed. You neglect your motherly duties and things get out of hand, and all you want to say, is not to take blame but to simply abort the baby and let her go on with life.
Healthy religion moves beyond the denial of responsibility, the distortion of reality and the creating of illusions. Shame on man, theyve totally loose their God greatest gift, 'Reasoning"
Moral has left the world. Even in government, the virtuous are not coming out, leaving the stage for the corrupt. What a world. Shame on motherhood.
2006-07-09 05:32:39
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answered by mikail 3
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You seem to think that it is acceptable to be irresponsible. Time you grew up and sorted yourself out, before trying to sort out the world.... where has self respect gone to, younsters are behaving like animals, almost doing it on street corners, and then whinging later when they end up pregnant. There is enough education these days for them to know better. Anyone of any age who is sleeping around with every tom dick or harry is a slapper and it is absolute rubbish to blame hormones, but then people who wont take responsibility for their own actions have to blame someone or something.
2006-07-09 05:59:26
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answered by Anonymous
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It is called keep your legs closed and your thing in your pants and there will be no abortions or teen pregnancies anywhere. That is much easier and tax payers would not have to worry about these people being on welfare.
2006-07-09 04:57:25
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answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5
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Most teenagers don't take the pills properly. Or use condoms...etc. They are just too irresponsible. But sometimes mistakes are made. As long as the teen mom tries to better herself and not just take handouts...its ok.
2006-07-09 04:13:28
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