my bf wanted to drink milk from my breast and does not keep much for the baby wot should i do . although i?

Question

i feel very tired after feeding him and totally exhausted to feed my child

Answer 1

As a woman who has breast fed and who knows the male fascination of the breast, what's the matter giving a little taste?

Milk production is stimulated by need. Natures supply and demand. The more that is stimulated the more will be produced.

Also, the process encourages the woman's uterus to return to normal size. The mother is also stimulated during breast feeding, in a way a mate will be very pleased to learn later on, after child's needs are attended too.

So, allow him the pleasure, it is an intimate moment between parents, sure to create even stronger bonding allowing parents to stay in team in raising their child.

Congrats on baby and relax, no one has to know what you and your husband do in your marital bed.

Must apologize completely missed you being tired. Which is natural for new moms, but your strength will return as long as your husband doesn't sap your energy. Make sure you clearly state this to him before you consider my reply. Again, I apologize.

Answer 2

Impress upon your husband that the child and yourself MUST come first. Ensure the child is fed, ensure you are not tired or that you have a rest. Then if you have any left over allow your husband to enjoy.

You could "trade", if he gets up in the night and bottle feeds the baby giving you the rest, then you will have more time and more milk for him.

Sorry, I don't think this is sick (I can just hear all the outraged comments); I think it is sharing and loving and cementing the family unit by being inclusive; as long as it doesn't harm anyone.

Answer 3

Of course you are exhausted do you think your body was designed to feed a 200 lb baby? Or that your bf's spoiled brat behavior is a reason to neglect your child? Because that is what you are doing this is child abuse plain and simple. Sharing your body with somebody you love is a beautiful thing but not the detriment of your child. Grow up and be a mother and if he can't put his child's needs before his own then what kind of father is he. It is your job to protect your child even from his father if necessary.

Answer 4

Feed the child first for **** sake - what is this. Your baby needs that milk, how sterile is your breast after he has had his fill! Is he a smoker leaving smoky saliva! God women take control and look after your child!

Answer 5

Why does your bf drink from your breast. Why not just from the milk carton! If he keeps doing it, and you tell him to stop, than just yell at him, how much you have to take care of the baby.Or kick him out of the house, or just give him the baby to take care of.

Answer 6

tell him to back off and leave the milk for your baby. He can go to the fridge and get a glass of milk if he really wants it, your baby is dependant on you to feed him/her. if you keep this up you are going to have to bottle feed and believe me that gets expensive.

Answer 7

I hope this is a joke...but if it's not...

Tell your boyfriend to get a glass of milk from the fridge!! Are you insane? YOU chose to nurse your baby and YOU are the only means of nutrition for the baby...why are you neglecting your responsibility? I think you need to grow up and get rid of the boyfriend.

Answer 8

well feed the baby first and then be done with this issue
If you can't confront your bf on this then talk to your doctor about it and ask them to help you explain the issue to the bf

Answer 9

what? your bf needs to get himself some milk from the fridge or get him something else to suck on because the baby is way way way for important than him when it comes to that

Answer 10

Tell him to find his own mother for that. Its natural for him to want to try it, but that milk is for the baby.