I have a friend who broke up w/ he bf and she told me i can't talk to him but he is still my friend?
wat do i do? my friend is my best friend but her ex. is my friend too. and the last time i houng out w/ him she wasn't my friend for a couple of days i think she is over reacting. wat do you think?
2006-07-09 04:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by mrvree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to respect your best friend. Give it some time and then tell her that you love her and don't want to hurt her but she is being unreasonable not letting you talk to your other friend. She is probably just worried that you will become his girlfriend, and she doesn't want you to be that. Give her some time, then be honest with her. If she still refuses to let you talk to him, then let her know that you are going to talk to him because he is your friend and you aren't going to try to date him... Good Luck
2006-07-09 04:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, your best friend doesn't have any special title that allows her to dictate who you can be friends with. Sure, there is going to be tension between you two if you are hanging out with her ex, but if he is your friend then she doesn't really have any right to say that you can't. What you should do is talk to her in a nuetral way, without saying "you are overreacting" or anything too offensive like that. Doing this will clear up any feelings of jealousy (clearly what is going on) and you will be able to continue to hang out with this guy. Of course, never ever date this guy-that's exactly what she is scared of.
2006-07-09 04:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is fullyyt one individual's opinion!! i imagine you may want to sit down down and picture about some questions(by using your self); a million. How close are you and your female pal,that is hurting a useless ringer for him? 2. What are your genuine feeling in the direction of your pal's ex-boyfriend? *you could purely choose one or the different. both of them are in what I call limbo,that you,very certainly can get stuck up interior the information superhighway of their sorrow.you don't need to BE THERE,believe ME,you'll free both acquaintances no count what!!good success, because your in an section the position isn't a winner!!
2016-10-14 06:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give your friend a little time to get over the initial anger and grief, but you shouldnt stop one friendship becuase she wants you to. Tell her so, so she doesn't think you are going behind her back, but do it calmly. Just keep telling her that you don't want to upset her but that you have to live your life. then don't be really obnoxiously obvious about talking to her ex. after a while she'll get ove rit.
2006-07-09 04:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by ChaChaChingThing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend will most likely get over the situation and you and her ex. can be friends again.
2006-07-09 04:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO THEM AT SEPARATE MOMENTS, WHO EVER YOU'RE WITH AT THE PRESENT SAY HELLO TO THE OTHER THAT GO IN PASSING, THE SAME WITH THE OTHER ONE. THAT WAY YOU KEEP PEACE BETWEEN THE TWO, EVENTUALLY ALL THE TWO OF THEM WILL GET TO TOGETHER ON THEIR OWN WILL.
2006-07-09 04:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, maybe, was he mean to her or what, you have to look at it from both sides, or dont talk to either one until they makeup and be friends.
2006-07-09 04:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you cant chose just one of them and if she was realy your friend she wouldnt tell you who you can or cant talk to.
2006-07-09 04:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by tara9smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a bit
2006-07-09 04:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋