When someone asks u wut u think about them wut do u say if its a friend who is really anyoing?

Question

Ok my friend talks about me behind my back and i was wondering if she asked me what i think about her what do i say????????????????????

Answer 1

I can see what type of relationship you have with her and can see that you are a hypocrite because I sense that you talk behind her back, like here.... If you think about things like that in advance and have to plan your possible conversations with her than you have a crummy friendship. You should be able to tell your friends if the do things to annoy you without them getting upset. I know though, that that's just the case with people, so it's up to you to govern the direction of this friendship if you want it to last. Tell her whenever she annoys you, for her improvement and the improvement of your friendship. Honesty is invaluable in a friendhship!

Answer 2

then they arent your friend at all.. if you go and say shes annoying behind her back.., no need for Good-for-nothing-talk-behind-their friends back kind of person.., If you think your friend is annoying.. then you shouldnt be friends with that person. theres nothing really to say..,. unless you are planning to tell them. that you dont want to be friends because either way you tell someone what you think of them.. it should come from honesty. because if not it will unfold like it or not. When you dont like someone. let them know. because if you did like your friend. then you wouldnt say they are annoying.. thats not the meaning of friendship. find this answer within yourself. and by this time asking others what you should say.. then youve already took the not-honest way out. good luck.

Answer 3

A true friend would be honest in a nice way. Just ask her if she really is talking behind your back and try to talk to her about her being annoying.

Answer 4

Tell them the truth but in a very gentle way. Trust me you will also be doing her a favor. Maybe she will realize how she has let you down and will stop it in the future. She may even become a better person because of this and people will really respect her. Good luck.

Answer 5

I would tell her what you feel is super about her and give some fun and positive examples. Explain how you value her and her friendship. Then go on by saying... it hurts me though to find out you have issue with me.... give her what you have heard. Lead on to say, what you find about this situation or her action to upsetting or unkind. Don't attack her. If you use words like, it makes me feel or when you behave this way or do these things I feel.... Others can't discount statements that reflect how you feel. If you go in on a defensive note, you all will fight

Answer 6

I think you should scold her ones and tell her that if you again tell anything about me behind my back and I come to know about that you will suffer. Even I had shouted at my friend. It worked. And don't be afraid while shouting other wise she will do the same thing again.

Answer 7

Tell her the truth. Make sure you know for sure that she is talking about you behind your back. Ask her about it because it may just be rumors.

Answer 8

If somebody talks behind you, ignore them.
If somebody talks before you, take them to task.
Gossiping is another human weakness and it is very difficult to control.
Ignorance is the best medicine - many times.

Answer 9

Be honest in a KIND way... difficult if the person really doesn't want to hear your answer. Good luck and decide if you really want this friend who is annoying.

Answer 10

The truth. If she is talking about you behind your she is not your friend.