2006-07-09 03:30:25 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_sxy_chick89 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Make sure you know what your interests are or that you have yourself on a path for discovering your interests. Get active in what you believe in. Develop yourself. Have accomplishments and activities that bring you pride. read, read, read if you can.
Get strong physically. Be your best FOR YOURSELF and everything else will follow. (Face it, the chemicals surging through a teen girl's body will make self-confidence around boys a challenge; that's okay. Concentrate on developing yourself so that you have something to offer a man and so that you will have the confidence to wait for a man who has something to offer you.
2006-07-09 03:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when i am feeling a bit "beneath" those i am around and feeling a bit unsure, i just remember that i am someone special, there is only one me in this world and even if the people right then and there with me dont see how special i am then i am not gonna try and make them see it, i just relax in the fact that over my life many people will come and go, some faster than others, but somewhere out there is that special person made just for me and until then i will just continue to be myself, and sometimes i have to make myself just not care about what dudes think of me i mean hell, they are just dudes right? and what do they know? (lol) but seriously now that i am older and a lot of younger dudes i work around always tell me i make them laugh alot, and they hope they find a girl one day who they can have such a good time with and laugh with, so practice making guys laugh, go online and learn jokes and stuff and once people start to take notice and laugh and then WANT to hear what you have to say you will start to feel more and more comfortable around them because it will start to seem like they wanna be around you and you know what, once you relax and be yourself, you will see why they wanna be around you, you are smart and funny special unique person.
2006-07-09 03:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sandie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? You just need to be yourself...always. And if a guy doesn't like you for who you are, thats his loss, not yours. You'll find the perfect guy one day? how will you know? You won't be nervous. He'll make you feel relaxed and just easy to talk to
2006-07-09 05:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
know that most people (teenage and adults) front to make the next person think that they are more than they seem. remember that you are a unique person and love yourself. besides, guys are fronting the worst!
2006-07-09 03:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by seer1213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be comfortable in your own skin. Be as confident when you're around them the same way you would be when you're NOT around them. Be happy always! :) Life's too short to worry too much!
2006-07-09 03:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by singaporegirljuly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get self confidence by being neat or i can get self confidence if somebody tells me 'HI''
2006-07-09 04:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by jazmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u DON"T. just b yourself and if they dont like u for who u are then screw them. just, DON"T WEAR SLUTTY CLOTHES. then they'll just want u for u're body, and u don't want that.
2006-07-09 03:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋