2006-07-09 03:22:26 · 22 answers · asked by chaotic_blakpearl 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
SADDEST.
DOWNnest.
MOST PAINFUL moments...
who can manage a BITTERSWEET SMILE....
2006-07-09 03:28:46 · update #1
yes. i cried for the lost of a grandma. iv loved her so much. i was her favorite. it was hard and painful. i didnt even attend school after that. i failed a lot of exams. but then one of the nights of NOSTALGIC MOMENTS, with tears all rolling down my cheeks(hey, thats too dramatic but i was wishing i cud see her again even for just a second even feeling her presence would make me better ) fighting back tears i shud have said and heart sunking with pain (yes, im a man but i cry, too). my room suddenly went blak-out and i rushed out the room thinking i was being GHOULED by my grandma. upon reaching the living room, i realized i was running and screaming in my BIRTHSUIT. the living room was LITED brightly. my parents and siblings thought i was getting mad. i burst out in laughter. we all had a good laugh. hahahaha!!!
the moral:
miss the dead. but dont ever wish seeing them at the same time
2006-07-09 03:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
I am one of those people who,
when things get stressful I spring into action act quickly and get things done,
I don't stop to think.
When it is all over, the impact of what has happened hits me, and I cry because what happened and laugh because it is over.
Prime example is when my oldest son had a bike accident,
he was in the hospital for several days and needed surgery to close the gash in his head.
I got to the accident scene right after it happened, rode in the ambulance with him to the hospital, and spent the next 3 days by his bedside.... as soon as he was out if recovery, I finally lost it... the emotion of the past three days came flowing, I was crying SO HARD,
yet I was smiling because everything was going to be OK.
I also did the same thing when my Nana died.
2006-07-22 14:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by msdagney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've done that a few times in my life. It isn't easy to do. When a person is really upset and cries, the last thing you feel like doing is smiling, especially if there is nothing to smile about.
For instance, your at a funeral home and someone in your family had just died. You are experiencing a gammit of feelings and you are crying. Then you see a dear friend come to the funeral home. You smile at them through your tears to be polite and to acknowledge that they are there.
What about you? Have you ever smiled even through tears?
2006-07-09 10:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lyndee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if I am tearing because I am happy. Or if someone is trying to cheer you up by making you laugh you can still be tearing and smiling at the same time.
2006-07-21 15:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by diniandbo812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a laughter mechanism and am always funny. I'm a crack up and joke around and quite a smart ***. I can tell jokes dialated to 5 with child birth. One memory shines out....
I remember the doctor broke off a needle in my heel giving me a cortizone shot for a bone spur. He didn't use a large enough needle and the pain was intense. I sat there laughing making jokes while these huge tears streamed down my face. I remember the doctor saying, "it must not hurt that much your still laughing"....laughing that I was going to kill him.....
2006-07-20 23:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! Laughing at your funny stories here lol!
Wellllll... a friend and I were very sad and teary eyed about some incident that happened in an hospital. As we were about to go home she said she would go to the ladies. After she came out and I was to go in..I came straight out again shocked - she was still in tears- I said: " Do you know there is no ceiling in there??" . She gave me this huhhh look, and when she looked up and looked at me, we both bursted out laughing. We still have no idea to this day if anyone was working on the ceiling inside. I don't think my friend wants to know either lol.
2006-07-20 11:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Nightstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-17 08:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Berserker_Gatsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When we buried my father, and then my brother said something silly about some of the funny things that my father used to say. Like after he met my boyfriend (husband now) and having a long heart to heart talk with him. On his way home, my father told him that he wished never to see him again.
2006-07-09 10:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bu Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sadly when my Dad passed away, I cried my heart out, yet, thinking back on all the love and help he gave me while growing up, all the fun times we had, I had to smile at these loving memories while viewing him.
2006-07-16 13:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by bellefiore2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm most of the time smiling to people, even though deep of myself i feel so sad, even though my heart is in tear....
most of the time i talk to people in a nice way, even though i feel like i dont want to talk to anyone at all at that time.
i think that i should not let others share my bad feelings, my bad thought and my bad mood, i just dont wnat to pull others day down, so , i just pretending i'm happy to all people, including my family and my best friend!
even once i went to a counselling session, i even found myself unable to show my truth feeling, i still smile at the counsellor!
only when i'm alone, sitting in my bedroom or in toilet or washroom, i can show my real feeling...
my sole mate told me that i should be open up and sow the real part of me, but i really cant... i try very hard on it, pull my face down... yet when people come talk to me or when people smile at me, i while just smile back and chat with a nice manner, i have been train up myself to be able to smile at people alll the time...
i dont know this is good or bad... but sometimes it quite suffreing to have pretending all the while; but i just dont want to spoilt others day!
2006-07-09 10:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Louis L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋