any hints, tips, recipeideas?
2006-07-09 02:52:24 · 12 answers · asked by spens dad! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For most women, getting in the mood is about feeling relaxed, comfortable and secure enough to let go of inhibitions. It is also important to feel attractive and desirable.
Therefore, foreplay starts the minute you say your first word... BE SINCERE AND RESPECTFUL (b.s. easy to detect). Tell her you can't wait to see her tonight (or whatever applies), and talk about what you enjoyed about a recent time you were together. When you first see her, compliment her - she smells nice, that dress really shows her legs -- whatever you find attractive in that moment. Be flirtatious, but not salacious -- make sure it's about being with HER, not about getting laid.
As for meal choices, everyone's taste is different, so go with something she likes. Just don't make it too large or messy a meal; a woman doesn't feel sexy when her stomach feels bloated, or if she's wearing the sauce on the blouse.
When the time comes to start getting physical, soft caresses and kisses on her neck and shoulders are a great way to start off. From there, you need to pay attention to what she responds to and what she doesn't. All women are different, so you have to get to know her unique turn-ons and turn-offs.
2006-07-09 03:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date until you both get to know each other well. Be interested in what her life goals are. Be interested in what her likes and dislikes are in her life. Be interested in who she is as a human being. Those are big "turn ons". Then, when you both know all of those things about each other and can say you love each other, then the best way to get her in the mood for what you're asking about----is to propose marriage, marry her, and be the kind of man she will be "in the mood" for, for the rest of your lives together.
2006-07-09 02:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, call me old-fashioned but, I like to be seduced first. A little kissing, light-touching goes a long way. Be mindful of the circumstances that might indicate that moment is not a good one (when one is tired and you have to get up early the next morning to go to work). Sensitivity to situations turns me on.
2006-07-15 02:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what she has to say, really listen, then reassure her that your not only in it for the sex, if she insists on taking it slow, go slow!! dont pressure her into anything, be gental and kind and understanding,then when she is ready, pounce on her!!! no just kidding, make her feel as if she is special. buy her a card and maybe a small gift, i.e. flowers, a stuffed animal, something sweet and kind. then when she is ready move slowly, kiss everywhere and talk to her. say things like, "are you sure you are ready?" "do you like this, or do you like that?" just be honest and careing dont forse her into anything, she will think that you are irresistable and wont want to keep her hands off of you!!!
2006-07-09 03:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by darla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean the House, do the Laundry, Cook dinner........you'll be very surprised.
2006-07-09 03:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read her a poem, pour a glass of wine & make a move.
2006-07-09 02:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by swimmaholik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not food. That just makes you full-up.
What works for me is :ear-nuzzling, playing with my hair, loud rock music, eye-staring, kissing...
see, I'm all horny and turned-on now
2006-07-09 02:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Patchouli Pammy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push the issue. Just pet her, rub her back, neck arms. If she wants it she will let you know.
2006-07-09 03:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here, try this:
http://www.theromantic.com/
2006-07-09 02:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol
2006-07-09 02:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by marchhare57 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋