2006-07-09 02:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I waited, yes it was worth it, and though you didn't ask, yes I was young.........21 years old. I have been married for almost 19 years, and the sex is still good! My opinion is that if you are truly, madly, selflessly in love with someone, and they with you, the sex will be great because great sex is about the other person! Now imagine if both people felt that way about it...........damn girl that's some great sex. Everything else is trial and error. Besides, half the fun is in the learning curve........;)
2006-07-09 12:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by m r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur a virgin and u wait, u'll always be better and have somehting no other girl who has sex casually has. U wud feel powerful over them, and u'd be more respected than them. I say wait until after ur married. Giving urself to the man u love after ur married wud be awesome! Instead of meaningless sex with some guy who's just going to dump u for some other girl later on anyway. Wait until ur married. Bcos no mater how many guys break ur heart, at least u'll know they didn't walk away with ur virginity!
The Right man wud wait til he's married to u and not pressure u to have sex with him. Thats the true test of love in today's day and age. And don't listen to that person who said u won't know what ur doing if u wait til ur married to have sex, thats SO Totally untrue. U cna research on sex and read about it and look it up on the net. There's so many things girls who have sex casually don't even know about having great sex! Be better than those stupid sluts/tramps. They're just cheap idiots.
2006-07-09 09:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ava_Marie_Prescott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a bit unorthodox, but my philosophy has always been: don't buy the cat in a bag.
What if the guy is crap in bed. Better to find out sooner rather than after marriage. That's one way two people can end up in a sexless marriage.
2006-07-09 09:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex ! Make it worth - whether it is after marriage or before marriage - thats not important ~ Find the perfect mate, who have more qualities to overcome the negative sides.
The sexual custom and belives may vary depends on the location, Relegion and believes.
2006-07-09 09:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by PG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited until I was well out of high school, not until marriage, and I have dated since my divorce, I dont thinking waiting is really worth it these days. You need to know that the person that you are with can satisfy your sexual needs and you will only this with experience of what is out there.
2006-07-09 09:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by here_2_help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey life`s short, don`t ruin it by staying virgin until marriage. I think this is bull**it! You may give "the first night" to someone you`re in love with, but don`t wait till you marry him/ her . What about satisfying the partner? If you don`t have any experience you`ll hardly do well....
2006-07-09 09:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by shaka_1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it was not worth it coz the man who broke my virginity also broke my heart and marriage.
2006-07-09 09:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not keep your vergin once you have sex. Being marriage is a woman's duty. No question ask.
2006-07-09 09:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worth it? you have no experience, no idea what you're doing, you're probably nervous and uptight. how could that be better?
2006-07-09 09:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes certain pretty love.
Good bless you.
2006-07-09 09:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋