The other day I went through the tv to find that on June 30 a porn was ordered on my tv. It wasn't me I was off with my kids. When I finally asked my fiancee he lied after hours of fussing her finally admitted to ordering for a friend ( MALE ) that came over. Is this normal? I thought men only watched these kind of movies with women unless they are gay. On the other hand he does always want to watch a porn while having sex or to get in the mood. I mean I'm not ugly. I'm 24, 5 foot 4 inches 123 pounds, 36C, 28 inch waist. What is wrong? Even blonde hair with bedroom blue crystal eyes. What''s up?????
2006-07-09 01:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by vicktoria_24_ga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone I have no problem with watching them with him. He is just watching them alone and with other men. We keep the relationship going ( adam & eve ) if you get me, but lately he needs a porn to get his **** hard to have sex with me. What do I do?
2006-07-09 02:53:59 · update #1
Everyone I have no problem with watching them with him. He is just watching them alone and with other men. We keep the relationship going ( adam & eve ) if you get me, but lately he needs a porn to get his **** hard to have sex with me. What do I do?
2006-07-09 02:54:01 · update #2
Everyone I have no problem with watching them with him. He is just watching them alone and with other men. We keep the relationship going ( adam & eve ) if you get me, but lately he needs a porn to get his **** hard to have sex with me. What do I do?
2006-07-09 02:54:30 · update #3
Your man likes to watch women have sex. Wow, big amaizing thing, you should call Ripley.
Get over it. Guys like watching naked beautfil womean have sex. Make it comfortable for him to talk about and he does not hide things and can start to explore all of his sexuality with you (and likely only you) and you can have some wild, amaizing nasty sex. Or you can keep on the same path you are on and have him hide it.
It has nothing to do with what you look like. Being voyeristic is a turn on. Watching other people is a turn on.
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2006-07-09 02:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you need to watch that the relationship isn't becoming a bit boring for the both of you. If you could bring some spirituality into your lives, something interesting for you both to look into together. Something to understand about life, Why we are all here? What is Life? etc. Is there a God? etc. Too much time spent in trivial sense gratification, the pleasure of the senses soon becomes boring and an unfullfilled life.
You both probably need to find an absorbing common interest. Get into some spiritual sites on the net and find something interesting that you could share with your fiancee. Yoga is a great start for you with such a great body. Great for the mind as well. The start for you I feel. If he doesn't follow your path maybe he is not going to make it to being your husband.
2006-07-09 02:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him watching porn with or without you isn't and shouldn't be an issue. It is his childish fear and inability to admit to it that is. You must not be so close if he has to exercise anything behind your back. He isn't much of a man if he couldn't say, 'Yeah, I ordered it, it was alright, a couple good scenes but over all a waste of 12.99.' Get it? It is even worse that he had to create a "friend" to blame it on. As for your unquestionably good looks? That just doesn't matter. Porn is different. It isn't an assault on the ones you care for it just human voyeurism at it's finest and often tutorial. Denying you like to watch porn, however, can be an entirely seperate issue.
I hope this answer just changed a life. Peace.
2006-07-09 02:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight and I don't watch porn with other men unless I get paid to (any offers? cash only).
He may not be gay but have some type of same sex fetish (i.e., masterbate independently with another dude). Then again he could just be stuck in the closet. Regardless, I don't think its normal for just 2 guys to watch porn together.
Hope it works out. If not give me a call you sound pretty hot.
PS - She's not talking about a group of people you tards. Yes, groups of men watch pornos sometimes but only two? Read the damn question.
2006-07-09 02:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Loretta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like there is a underlying issue that he is facing and might be embarrased to talk about it. or is feeling guilty about soomething he did. hence the arguement and denial at first. i know i would not watch porn with another guy...to me that poses another set of questions all together. even if nothing has happened...every relationship needs to have open communication and honesty. and good listening....
2006-07-09 03:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by hunter784102001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just likes porn.
If you know that he likes porn, and he has asked you to watch it, are you watching it with him?
You sound very attractive, but if you are not as receptive to sex as he is, it could cause some problems.
Also, people like different things.
Try honesty and communication.
(and porn, try porn, too. :-)
2006-07-09 02:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Cleaner Believing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not abnormal for men in groups to watch porn. Don't make a big thing of it.
2006-07-09 02:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by ringocox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's watching it to get turn on to be with you i would have some concerns, whether he's gay only you can say, but you may have have a serious talk with him.
2006-07-09 02:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo, i realized that this is a natural thing for men. there are guys that watch porno with their friends, just to watch the girl get it, and to make fun of the stuff they see. i started watchin porno with my man and now it's a regular thing. personally i see nothin wrong with it. it does not hurt to try, you even might learn a few thing!!! lol
2006-07-09 02:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋