One of my best friends is cheating on her husband and I have told her what she is doing is wrong. I dont want to be a ***** and tell her husband, but this is like the 4th guy shes cheated on him with. He knew about 1 last year and took her back anyways. She is a lousy wife but she really is a good friend. IS there some advice I can give her to get her to straighten up? Or should I just keep out of it and let her ruin her life?
2006-07-09 00:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by ChrissyLicious 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It serves no good at all to tell her husband. She is ruining her marriage, no doubt. Your telling him only speeds up the process and makes for a hostile and no way back split. If you keep talking to her, there is a tiny chance that she comes to her senses and realizes that her actions are wrong. Talk to her as a therapist would, in a non-judgmental way. Try to let her address why she does it. Does she want out of the marriage and is trying to do it easy (on her)? Is she frustrated sexually with her husband? Does she need perpetual reinforcement of her attractiveness? Is she hooked on the high of lusting and cheating? The point is, tell her that she's hurting her husband and her marriage, and that whether she wants to preserve it or to get out, there is a better way to do so. She needs therapy.
2006-07-09 01:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a decent person even and she can't be a good friend. she could be deceiving u behind ur back too same as she is doing with her husband
2006-07-09 08:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep out of other peoples lives, and mind your own business
2006-07-12 15:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Marge Simpson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she willl forever cheat-that is her nature. when push comes to shove down the road, she won't be anywhere close, if you need her.
2006-07-09 08:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she needs to get help if this is 4th guy
2006-07-09 08:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u call such a person ur good frnd? are u sure that she is not cheating u on ur back?
STAY AWAY FROM HER
2006-07-09 08:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're getting her some tickets to 'Springer' if she doesn't stop.
2006-07-09 08:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Spike Spiegel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if shes your friend you should be able to say what you want to her without her falling out with you...
2006-07-09 08:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋