....... We've got 2 kids and we seem to have drifted apart, is it possible for us to be happier separated??
Why doesn't it feel like it then?????
Is it going to mess my kids up????
Serious answers only please!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 00:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can throw that housing form away.
Your not goin anywhere, an she said thanks for the great sex this afternoon!!
2006-07-12 02:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by MoJoJoJo 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If the kids know that you and your possible ex gf still are close and are great friends who talk a lot, and you're highly involved in your kids' life after the split, the chances of them becoming messed up in the future will decrease.
2006-07-09 00:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already 'messed up' by having 2 kids and not being married. You all need counseling and find what works. Yes, it is probably better to be separated and have a peaceful life for your kids.
2006-07-09 00:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you will never be happier separated, guys just try seeing a counsellor. you once love each other and have been together for 10 years. it is just boredom. try to go back in time when you first met and loved each other and each of you make a list of why you fell in love.. try to find time for each other to date like you once did before.. i am sure you will find very common things still exist so u can easily fall in love again.. there are kids involved now so it is really woth trying
2006-07-09 00:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i split up after twelve years we went our seperate ways for two then got back together, it worked for us this is not for every one i know , friends of ours seperated and are still apart some are happier some are not the key i guess is to keep communication open with the children and to let them know you love them and want to see them. Also try not to bad moth each other on thier ear shot hard at times but its best for them, good luck with your decision.
2006-07-09 06:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by dreamyuk67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! 10 years, and no ring?? do one of you have a commitment phobia? I'd loose interest too if I couldn't seal the deal after two kids, and 10 years.
If you really Love each other, and the sex still rocks, why not try talking, REALLY talking to each other, and try to find what's broken?
It's worth it to try, after all, do you really want to go through all the drama of a dating strangers only to find yourself with similar issues 10 more years down the road? Good luck!!
2006-07-09 00:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is never greeener on the other side. If your drifting apart find some common ground...if you guys were single it really wouldn't matter, but come on you have two kids...TRY
2006-07-09 00:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it to much this can also put a strain on the relationship. If you're meant to be then you will.
2006-07-10 08:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by kay171186 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to see a shrink or counsler
2006-07-09 00:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to leave now then when it is to late.kids to get over it.seems like you will not
2006-07-09 00:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋