im 17. im a virgin. does sex for the first time hurt?also, can we get pregnant the first time we have sex?

Answer 1

yeah it hurts the first time and sometimes the first three times but eventually the pain goes away and it feels great, and yes it only takes one time to get pregnant so make sure you talk to your doctor about birth control and other methods of birth control as well

Answer 2

I was 17 when i first had sex too. Yes it hurt. It actually hurt like the first 12 times. lol. But later it feels better. Yes you can get pregnant anytime you have sex. Even if you are using a condom or on birth control. The only method that is 100% protection is abstinance.

Answer 3

Number One, and MOST important in your double question, YES you can get pregnant ANYTIME with sex, EVEN if he doesnt ejaculate and only has what is called pre-ejaculation, (or pre-***.) You have to make sure you have the right protection for this as well, as pregnancy is not the ONLY thing you have to worry about. Do you know how high AIDS is on the rise and that there are other diseases out there that cannot even be cured? (Like Herpes, and warts, which both can be unseen just by looking on your partner.) You have to take into consideration that when you sleep with your boyfriend that you are also sleeping with them and everyone else their partner slept with... taking that into consideration, the numbers can get pretty high... be very careful and respect yourself enough to take care of yourself. (There are men out there who will tell you that they CANNOT use a condom, for this reason or the next, DO NOT fall for this, YOU and YOUR HEALTH are so much more important than some whiney male saying he cant...)

Now, on to if it will hurt... the answer is yes it will hurt, but can be lessened, IF you and your partner have a lot of foreplay, (kissing, touching, holding, ) before you actually let him come near your vagina with his penis. ALSO use a lubricant labled for sexual encounters, (and NOT vaseline, baby oil, or lotions, as they can cause breaks or holes in the condom OR cause you an infection.)

I want to stress to you something about your virginity that you may not be thinking at this moment. Virginity is a GIFT you can share with someone you are SURE you want to be with. This GIFT can only be shared one time, so make sure you are with the right boy. When I lost mine, the guy was great, until I had sex with him... then he disappeared. I regret this, and I don't want anyone to feel the hurt I did from this type of thing. Please note that some boys or men will tell you ANYTHING to try to get you to have sex with them... DON'T fall for this! There is also the fear that he will break up with you if you don't do it. Listen, you DON'T need to be with ANYONE if he is pressuring you, this would make him not worth your time. (I don't know if he is, but I thought I should touch on that point, just in case!)

Your best bet is to remain a virgin as long as you can... the risks outweigh the benifits as young as you are. It doesn't make you uncool to be a virgin, it makes you smart! My hat is off to you because you are still a virgin, I respect that, and if he is worth anything, so will he.

I hope this helps and good luck to you!

Answer 4

You can get pregnant the first time you have sex, even if he tries to pull out before ejaculation, as the penis secretes sperm even before orgasm, so first thing, when you DO have sex, use contraception!! Secondly, most women these days are so active, in sports, physical fitness, etc, that the hymen (a membrane that partially covered the vaginal opening as proof of virginity and would bleed profusely when they first had sex) is usually already broken. So that should not be a cause for pain. The biggest cause of pain in inexperienced sexual partners is because the guy is usually so eager to penetrate his partner that he does not adequately prepare her body with sufficient outercourse (all the fun stuff that IS NOT intercourse), so her vaginal canal is usually not relaxed and lubricated enough. Take your time and enjoy everything else, allow your body to get it self ready, and you should be fine, without pain!!

Answer 5

For many women sex does hurt the first time. And yes you can get pregnant ANYTIME you have sex the first time and the 20th time. So make sure to use a condom if you dont want to get pregnant.

Answer 6

Sex for the first time can hurt, although some people perceive pain as pleasure. You may bleed, as this is due to the tearing if the hymen. Yes, you can get pregnant the first time you have sex. Use a condom!

Answer 7

Sex the first time can hurt a lot unless you are really turned on then it may not hurt as much. Yes you can get pregnant any time you have sex without protection are a disease don't have sex without protection.

Answer 8

You will feel a bit of pain during the first time because of the penetration. If your partner is considerate, he would go very slowly and carefully. Yes, it's very possible that you could get pregnant in the first time. Always remember this, you must use protective sex for any unwanted pregnancy and sexaul transmited diseases. Since you're a teen, you want to be careful.

Answer 9

1. Maybe 2.YES.
1.Because of the belief that first vaginal penetration would usually tear this membrane and cause bleeding, its "intactness" has been considered a guarantor of virginity in societies that place a high value on female chastity before marriage. However, the hymen is a poor indicator of whether a woman has actually engaged in sexual intercourse because a normal hymen does not completely block the vaginal opening. The normal hymen is never actually "intact" since there is always an opening in it. Furthermore, there is not always bleeding at first vaginal penetration. The blood that is sometimes, but not always, observed after first penetration can be due to tearing of the hymen, but it can also be from injury to nearby tissues. Post-injury, injuries to the hymen and surrounding tissues often quickly heal, leaving the hymenal tissue looking as if there had been no injury at all[1]

A tear to the hymen, medically referred to as a "transection," can be seen in a small percentage of women or girls after first penetration. A transection is caused by penetrating trauma. Masturbation and tampon insertion are generally not forceful enough to cause penetrating trauma to the hymen (Bays in Reece, 2001: 297). Straddle injuries due to sports like bicycling, horseback riding, or gymnastics do not cause transections. Straddle injuries generally cause injuries over the pubic bone, tailbone, or to either side of the vaginal opening. Since straddle injuries are not penetrating injuries, they do not cause transections of the hymen (Bays in Reece, 2001: 295-6).

2. Even a drop of semen without complete penetration can get you pregnant.

You are too young. Wait until you are a bit older to deal with this, so you can understand the relevance this will have in your life.
Good luck. Be safe.

Answer 10

Hurts a little and you can get pregnant. I think oral sex feels better than the old in and out. I wish I had waited longer to have sex because then I could marry some hot arabic guy who could only marry a virgin. For me it was too late.