For years pop culture and society have trained, molded, and encouraged girls, and women (young and old) to flaunt their bodies in sexually provocative ways through "fashion", television, the big screen, and in public through any number of venues, to any and all males that will watch (and sooner or later, ALL will!).
Females have used their bodies in provocative ways to entice men in order to get the things they want: attention, acceptance, power(having their way), things, money, sex, romance, position, employment, and advantages of all sorts.
The trade-off is that while females are doing this, they neglect to consider the negative impact they are having on their male victims. These women are actually prostituting themselves. Their actions and behaviors ignite, enflame, and to this day continue to fuel negative and volatile consequences in their targeted male audience the world over.
The Bible says:
Pro 23:27 For a whore [is] a deep ditch; and a strange woman [is] a narrow pit.
Pro 23:28 She also lieth in wait as [for] a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.
When King David sinned with Bathsheba (a beautiful woman wrongfully bathing where she could be seen openly by the King who was where HE shouldn't have been), his wicked sin was discovered. King David sinned yet more and brought a terrible curse upon his household through his original lust upon this woman. Ultimately, King David repented and got right with God but the damage had been done.
However, he made this vow:
Psa 101:3 I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; [it] shall not cleave to me.
Psa 101:4 A froward heart shall depart from me: I will not know a wicked [person].
When men get a steady diet of pornography, whether it is from print, video, internet, or walking down the street, they begin to develop an appetite for more of it. Women who flaunt their sexuality think that they can have the effect they want from men, and then the men can turn their feelings off. They can't, and it is stupid for women to think so.
The main reason that pornography is so damaging to society is that men are turned on by visual stimulation of the female body (the feelings that God intended that men should have for their wives only). God never intended that women should promanade around half-nude and nude to publicly incite men. The passions that women stir up, men can supress.... but only for so long. Eventually the feelings come up in all manner of aggressiveness and wicked behavior. The sinful images that women plant in mens minds are there till the day they die!
Rom 1:24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
Rom 1:25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Rom 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
Rom 1:28 And even as they did not like to retain God in [their] knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
Rom 1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
Rom 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
Rom 1:31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
Rom 1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
Violent aggressiveness to everyone, rape, incest, child sexual abuse, self-abuse, so-called "date rape", prostituiton (consensual and sex-slavery, even involving young female children), increased appetite for pornography in all it's forms, lust, and all manner of wickedness; this is the direct result of women flaunting their sexuality and bodies for selfish, wicked, sinful ends.
Unfortunately, the passions that women awake in men aren't taken out only on the women who awake them. They find vent in every girl and woman of all ages everywhere. Pop culture, society, and sinful women are helping to manufacture male perverts by the millions and tens of millions with no thought that it is ALL of society who will pay the price for it!!
This is part of the reason, young lady, that until Jesus Christ returns, the world will continue to be an unsafe place for all girls and women. There are no places that I know of where any woman can trust will be completely safe for them. And tragically, it is due to many of the female gender themselves.
All I can tell you is to "grow eyes" in the sides and back of your head (develop a sixth sense, a street sense, to the dangers around you) and only venture out in a group or with a strong male companion.
My heart goes out to you all
Dear Old Dad
2006-07-09 01:23:32
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answered by Dear Old Dad 3
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Carry a firearm of some sort, but make sure it's legal, you don't want to get caught with it and go to jail if it's not legal.
Indiana is a relatively safe state, depends on which city or town you live in though. Not as much crime as you hear about in Cincinatti Ohio or Detroit Michagan. And it's legal to have a concealed firearm as long as you have a permit for it.
Texas has the death penalty for some laws, and they're not afraid to use it. So alot of people try to do good there because nobody wants to die.
Good luck in finding a safe place. The only reason I mentioned Indiana is because that's where I'm from. There's a lot of nice people and small towns where everybody knows everybody and would do anything to keep someone safe. It's a good state.
Unfortunately, I don't think our world will ever be a safe place, especially for women.
2006-07-09 07:11:26
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answered by heather47374 4
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I think that no matter which country your in every body should be able to feel safe when walking down the street, whether it be from men, women, boys, girls.
The fact that this sort of thing goes on is really sad to say the very least.
What can you do to stop this from happening because you don't deserve to be treated in this way. You could try letting these people know that you don't like being treated in this way.
Now depending on where in the world you are that might not be a good idea.
I guess the only thing you can do is to try to get to a country where you can feel safe wen you walk down the street, and although Australia isn't perfect it is well known here that these types of things are not tolerated and people that do these sorts of things can very quickly find themselves in jail if he person they are doing it to decides to make a complaint to the police about them.
I am a male btw and I must say that you should kick these blokes in the go-nads that will hurt them and stop them, but they might then want to kill you or something so please don't go doing tht unless you are sure that you can get away with it.
2006-07-09 07:16:31
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answered by jackocomp 4
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Take a reputable self-defense class. Yell and make a loud fuss at any male who behaves inappropriatesly so that he is embarrassed. Ask him if is he so pathetic he can't find a willing woman. Tell him emphatically and loudly to "Stay back! Don't touch me!"
Many teachers of self-defense for women emphasis that women have greater strength in their legs than their upper body, so falling to the ground and kicking can help in a situation that gets seriously physical. Kick at the knees. If grabbed, go for the eyes, under the chin, the groin, the shins, the bones on the top of the feet. Scream "Call 911."
Carry pepper spray, but be careful about weapons such as knifes that might be wrestled away from you. Build up your self-confidence through taking a class, and know that you really can defend yourself when you know the proper techniques. Look for a class that gives you actual physical contact in fighting techniques, rather than just lecture instruction.
Pay attention to your intuition because it really can signal you if a man has bad intentions. Walk only in well-lighted areas at night, and preferably, go out with friends rather than alone.
It's a shame this abhorrent behavior goes on in today's world. Any man who behaves this way is really a slime ball.
2006-07-09 07:23:17
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answered by Peace Pup 2
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First, ignore Longslove7, he or she is an idiot. Those PIGS are doing this because it's a power trip, it ain't even about sex. Get people to care, tell your story to the authorities, tell it to the media, work for change, and getting the ANIMALS responsible for this put away. Teach your children, if or when you have some, to respect women as PEOPLE and not OBJECTS. Learn to fight, especially techniques that use a person's own strength and size against them. Fight dirty if you get cornered, aim for the crotch, the eyes, the solar plexus, the instep, the armpits, the throat, and other vulnerable pressure points. Only you can decide to be a victim, or a warrior.
2006-07-09 07:29:59
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answered by crow76308 3
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Respect! That comes from good breeding and soceity. If the soceity has stopped taking care of their mothers, sisters or daughters being abused then god help. Respect and love should start from mothers , family, education and then finally law ( in order). Without it things wold not be different from the animal world. Some suggestions you received are good. Wear modestly, have some well connected friends and ofcourse learn self defence.
2006-07-09 07:16:39
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answered by RK 1
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dress well which is not sexy, & not attractive
when u walk in front of the males don't make a change in the way look at them or respond to their commands
just think that always opposite sex and the hormonal existance in every creation of this earth this things will happen
God has given you a sence to react safer and protect your faminity from the lusty look of males
most of the time it depends on girls why they are spoiled by men
never be too closer to males as you don't know about thier charector.
the next thing is you atomatically are attracted to the males and your ID "Pretty" name shows that you want males to be attracted to you.
so don't be tired, don't give up Keep closer to God the Protector and obay to the advice to the girls written in the bible.
Take care
2006-07-09 07:23:21
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answered by LongsLove7 1
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You may not care for this answer as it may seem too simplistic; especially in the unknown land where your presently find yourself.
Women give birth to baby boys. Baby boys grow up to be men. These men are your sons.
Women MUST begin to take responsibility for the boys they raise.
If every woman in every part of the world would begin to raise their sons with respect for women then this unhappy situation would change.
Men are ugly and hurtfull and disrespectfull to women because their mothers let them be that way.
Stop it.
Stop it NOW.
2006-07-09 07:13:25
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answered by Temple 5
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This type of behavior should be brought to the attention of your local officials by yourself and other like minded females. You should ask around and get other females dedicated to the same interest and build more public awareness on the issue. Write to your local paper also and even TV station etc. Pull out all the stops and be the spark that ignites the fire that eradicate this unjust behavior. No one should be subject to this abuse. Have faith and just also pray for guidance. Best of luck.
2006-07-09 07:11:20
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answered by D baby 3
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In your case, I'd say that your culture/society needs to teach the males to respect the females....from an early age.
If I were you, I would carry pepper spray or a pistol with me. I'd protect myself. Be strong. Don't allow yourself to be a victim....and leave that place as soon as you can. The rest of the world isn't like that.
I will pray for you.
2006-07-09 07:11:43
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answered by treefrog 4
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yes my dear sister, some of the places like Soudhi Arabia,Also ucan get 80% better treat with DUBAI,
be ware god knows u better, ware good covering clothes(atleast 70% of u r body, the god is made women to attract the men,if u r wairing such cloths that got too much attraction thats the problem
2006-07-09 07:30:32
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answered by Anas Abbas P 1
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