im not sure whether he likes me but i think i might like him. i don't want to though because id rather be with him forever as friends than lose him. hes a touchy feely guy and he can me mean but he isn't mean to me. anyways this year there have been many group get2gethers w/ his an my friends. and they usually involve a movie. well i always sit close to him during them but the last one i saw w/ him we were sharing a blanket and i was scared so he was holding my hand and my head was resting on his shoulder. when he does things like that i get confused. when he pushes the hair out of my eyes or holds my hand it seems as though he mite like me a little. the joke at school is that we like each other and i've always said i don't so has he. we've talked bout it b4 and he says he doesn't like me and i say i don't either.he tells me bout the girls he likes and i tell him. and he says that the guy i like is blah but hes ok friends w/ the guy. so wat do u think he likes me?wat should i do?
2006-07-08 23:55:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im still not convinced he likes me cuz we are really tight. and we had this incident the other yr. where something happened he did something that made it seem like he liked me and then i told him i didn't like him like that and then he said he didn't either i lost him then we didn't tlak to much it was awkward. but we really are best of friends. i was saying how i wasn't going to have a date for grad (thatsin 2yrs) and he said if he doesn't have a date 4 grad and i don't either we'll go just as friends. when we talk, or say things we usually add just as friends. he says that alot which leads me to believe that he doesn't want anything more. he sends mixed signals. and someone commented if i could accept him being mean and of course i do, hes not really mean just critical. and i accept him the way he is. thats not the problem. the problem is i don't want to lose him AGAIN and im not sure what to do. and i don't know if he likes me.
2006-07-09 01:33:29 · update #1
im pretty much in the same situation as u are. my best friend is a guy, and we've known each other since we were both only 3 years old.as years went by we were in the same class, sitting in the same desk, going out every single night together and sharing every little,stupid secret. we have spend millions of hours watching tv hugged on his bed or on my bed, or watching a scary movie at the cinema, and he would always hold my hand and he hugs me and puts my head on his soulder..he was always the first one to ask me if i was cold whenever we were out and he'd always take off his sweater and give it to me. we finish each other sentences and we think about the same things and stuff. it is a really special bond..
but the trouble is we've known each other for all these years and it could really be friendly. but i don’t know, the vibe just doesnt always seem friendly to me. however, he's met my bfs, i've met his gfs, and whenever people ask if we like each other in a different way(as in more than friends) we always laugh and say we dont..
im really sorry for blabbing all this time, but when i saw the question i knew i could kinda share my story.coz i really think ive fallen for my best friend, and the weird thing is i think he's fallen for me as well..but here lies the big question: should i tell him and put out friendship on the line? 2 things might come out of that,something good and something bad..the good thing would be to say he likes me as well and he wants us to be together,so he'd turn out to be the love of my life(not that he already is,but w/e),and the bad thing that could happen would be to say he only wants us to be friends and then it all ends..
thats why i could never tell him:i never take risks and i just dont wanna loose him..but i think u should tell ur friend u like him and take that risk coz,from personal experience, I know its worth the try..so i think u should risk ur friendship and tell him,and it seems he does like u,so i dont think u'd have a prob there.whatever happens i wish u all the luck in the world!..cheers!
2006-07-09 00:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A relationship starts with communication, he is communicating attraction to you.
Is he behaving the same way with any others?
Guys can be shy about comunicating feeling in all sorts of areas, love and affection are the two big ones.
One thought, you observed that he is sometimes mean to others. is that something you can accept in him?
Talk to him and give a chance to talk to you..
2006-07-09 00:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r really lucky. i must say. wow! life is at best 4 u. but dear, dont fear, tell him truly abt ur heart. hes ur frnd. rite. blanket, hands in hands, hairs on eyes..... he mite have thought of u atleast sum time. just tell him ur feelings but assure him b4 tht our frndship ll last 4ever. beleive me! though these all r treasurable moments n alwayz its hard 2 except frnds as sumthing more then tht. u watched 'kal ho na ho' then u r preity n ur frnd is saif. but the diff is nothing leave this. hey! go ahead. best of luck. speak b4 its 222 late. tell him everything each n every feeling but first tell him tht its nt necessary 4 him 2 have the same thing. if its no 4m him tell him b4 tht his decision doesnt matter in ur life
2006-07-09 00:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he likes u. he is just as afraid as u r. u should take the 1st step. what is the worst that could happen, that he says i like u as a friend. come on u know better than that. buena suerte y no seas tan cobarde.
2006-07-09 00:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by heycanwedoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a straight talk to him. It's the only way of knowing...
"Clues" like that might be misinterpreted sometimes, so don't count on that. Ask him and see his reaction and his answer.
2006-07-09 00:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this ...once you cross the line there is no going back and things will never be the same again. are you prepared for this friendship to change??
2006-07-09 00:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by crystal angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you,i would definitely tell him how i feel..
and it seems he likes you...
ooooh...i love stories like this...
thanks!
tell him ok?
muahz!
2006-07-09 00:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by aNgeLa_kriz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and tell your friend how you feel
2006-07-08 23:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel... maybe in a letter perhaps.
2006-07-09 00:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋