i don't know what to do,what i want and feel lost and lonely.i ofen stay at room by myself and see films .i hope i can have a friend but i hate talking...
what's wrong with me and what can i do?
2006-07-08 23:46:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have a question:
do you think life is meaningful?
2006-07-09 03:18:02 · update #1
i think you need a soulmate
2006-07-08 23:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is get out of your room. Go to a park, a cafe, a concert, a museum... Anywhere you can find people. Just walk in public places a few times to get used to it. Than, try actually making friends. You must have neighbors or colleagues your age. Try talking to them about things both you and them like. Making friends isn't hard; the harder part is keeping them.
You could also try a penpal site, where you could meet people with the same likes and dislikes as you. Try Interpals!
Best of luck and I hope you'll feel better soon!
2006-07-08 23:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey some people like to keep to themselves. Me for instance, I like to just stay in my room and play video games, watch TV or get on the computer. Sometimes Im having a blast and sometimes i think about why i am never with other people. I dont know about you, but sometimes i feel like no one that i know is good enough. At my school theres the rednecks, the preps, and the stoner/skaters. Im just an average guy who has tons of school friends but just dont have any good friends. You should learn to like keeping to yourself.
2006-07-08 23:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jake F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not big talkers. Its ok. There is nothing wrong with you. But its gonna be kinda hard to not be lonely unless you make at least one friend. Summer is a hard time to do that cause everybody is so busy. Wait til school starts. You will meet lotsa new people. One of them will be just right for you.. m
2006-07-09 00:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's shyness or lack of confidence (or a concern about looks) in yourself that keeps you in a self-imposed isolation. (I'm the same way). As someone else suggested a mental-health worker would help you get over the hump. But what has helped me is finding a subject(s) which I'm interested in and then getting involved with it. In this whole-wide-world there's GOT TO BE SOMETHING that catches your interest. This will help you get out of "yourself" and also help in meeting others who share your interest. YOU WILL DEVELOP FRIENDSHIPS based on shared interests. It will work as it has for me. Just take it slow but stay with it.
Good luck (but sometimes luck is what YOU make it)
Tony
2006-07-09 00:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you choose to be. If you hate talking you are maybe just to shy to start a conversation and there are ways you can get over that.
Invite a friend to watch a movie with you, you don't have to say much to get them there and the movie may give you things to talk about afterwords. Go to a movie at a theatre with a friend, it's always nice to have someone to laugh with.
2006-07-08 23:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have similar problem,sometimes I locked up my room and my companies are my computer,TV, dvd and sound system!But I used to be friendly,maybe we are just looking for some interesting people to talk with and interesting topic to tackle with!But I feel contented now because of this internet I interact with my sister abroad,friends and long distance ralative and I made a lot of good thins here infrnt of my PC!But i still give time to sociaqlize because that is part of our life!Sometimes you have to join them if you ca'nt beat them!Feel free what makes you happy!
2006-07-09 00:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you hate talking, don't have a friend.
Go out, shopping, join a tour group. Help out in soup kitchens. Helping people will make you less lonely cos you will be surrounded by people.
How about learning to dance? Line dancing, salsa, hip hop, ballroom.
2006-07-09 00:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up from behind the tv and go out! It's very easy, go shopping, go to the movies, go to the museum, go do something touristy you've always heard about but never done, just do something with yourself. Don't stay at home full of self pity. You'll just be aiding the loneliness
2006-07-08 23:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by metorido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately tell your problems to one of your close friend or any one in the family, and discuss with him or her to consult about a doctor, I think a perfect Psychologist can solve your problem within 3 or 4 weeks.
2006-07-08 23:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by PG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having friends doesn't mean you have to talk all the time!!! with a good friend you can go to a restaurant and not say a word and don't feel unconfortable. If you feel like this!
2006-07-08 23:49:45 · answer #11 · answered by paliminka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋