2006-07-08 23:01:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Good! HAHA! Maybe that will teach you not to have sex at 13 and ask stupid questions!
2006-07-08 23:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by julia4evert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is trying to use something against you is bad news. He is not good for you and you need to leave him alone. You probably are only having sex for him. He probably doesn't care if you are really liking it or not, so you should stop doing it with anyone until you are older. Blackmail you how? By saying he'll tell your parents? How old is he? What is he trying to get you to do because he has the picture. Sounds like he may have already shown some friends. If you know where he keeps it, steal the picture and rip it up. If not I'd tell him it's against the law to have naked pictures of little girls. If he is older then he can definitely be in some serious trouble with the law. If he's your age then maybe he'll be scared and give it to you. Do you have a good friend who has an older brother maybe? Get your picture back before it ends up on the internet or all around school. Do not let him blackmail you. Fight back! And leave him alone as well.
2006-07-09 02:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop seeing this boy NOW! He is not your boyfriend of he is blackmailing you. Do not worry about those pictures. He is in them too.
If he is saying he's going to show them to your parents if you don't have sex with him again, call his bluff and let him. He will not show them because he will be in trouble too. This is just his way of getting you to continue to do something you don't want to do.
Call it off now...and move on. Stop having sex with anyone! You are much too young.
You do not say how old your boyfriend is. If he is older than you, or even the same age as you, it would probably be better for you to talk with your mom about what has been going on. Yes, she will be upset, but she should see what has been happening to you...especially if this boy is over 18. This is rape (even if he is younger and you didn't want to do it, it's rape).
As I said before, just because you've had sex once, or multiple times, you do NOT have to continue. Stop now. You are so young.
You need to be hanging around with friends and in groups going to the movies, going bowling, just hanging out together and having fun. There is plenty of time for sex later in life...much later. Enjoy school and it's activities. You shouldn't have to be worrying about getting pregnant or getting sexually transmitted diseases.
What I've always told my kids and I do first aid at a school and I tell them this too...."if you feel like you have to hide something from either your parent or teacher or other friends, then it is wrong. It's God's way of telling you don't do it." It's called a "gut" feeling and you should always go with your gut.
If you don't feel like you can talk to your parents then talk to your school nurse or school counselor or a teacher you feel you can talk to. Even to your doctor or his/her nurse. Find someone you trust and talk with them about sex.
Drop this so called boyfried though and NOW!
Good luck!
2006-07-12 05:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by 317bossyaussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are together....You try taking a snap shot of him then use it for blackmail say your gonna tell his mom, your mom or the police or show around school...
or you can try and get it while his sleeping, in the bathroom...
or say you don't like that photo to throw that one away and you want to take another one...then when you throw away that pic make sure it's riped up and then break his damn camera
2006-07-09 01:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow the whistle on him. Tell your mom, school councillor, an adult you trust. If everyone knows, he can't blackmail you, and you're not legal so he has more to lose than you do! It's statutory rape.
Others have been in your situation, so don't feel too bad about it. Just learn from it and never let it happen again!
2006-07-08 23:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can think of to do is to tell your parents and have them deal with it or call the police and report him for child pornography, I know you most likely don't want anyone to see it but that's all you can really do. He will go to jail for having those photos whether or not u agreed and most likely no matter his age but I think you should talk to your parents or another adult you trust if you don't want to call the police right away. Good Luck!
2006-07-08 23:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Laci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from>Are you in US?Sex at 13 is crazy but done so what is the blackmail?What is he threatening to do with the picture?What does he want you to do.You can send me private email if you need to talk more.
2006-07-09 04:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by cmeand3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, for starters your 13! I'm 13, and I know better than to have sex at this age. I'm not saying I'm against premarital sex, but I am this young! Also you let him take your picture! For starters I would guess you should get the photo, second of all you are such a paris hilton wannabe!
2006-07-09 02:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911
2006-07-09 03:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by 4vAtaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age of 13 ur having a bf ! u know its nt gud 2've bf atleast at this age.. u must concentrate on ur studies..
how old is ur bf..? ok dont go 4 quarrels..calmly tell him that u r quite small 4 all this.. when u'll grow up a little bit.. then u'll hang round with him.& do all those...
tell him not 2 disturb u now..
2006-07-08 23:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by vicky ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must learn to think before you act and take responsibility for your actions. This might be a good lesson for the future.
And tell him that he will go to jail for having sex with you, and the picture will be a good proove.
2006-07-08 23:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by otherico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋