when do you accept that some things just aren't gonna work out?

Answer 1

When I have come to the end of my rope, which over the last few years has become shorter and shorter. life is too short to deal with b.s. in your life. Do what is going to make you happy and no one else. That is what i have finally learned after 35 years....

Answer 2

Picture you just buying a 1600 PSI pressure washer (your new toy) because your a Home Organizer...that likes things very orderly! You're at a clients house to blast down there patio that's so dirty you could make a happy face design with the force blast of the pressure gun ~BUT~ you connect the the hose to the machine. Turn on the water, turn on the machine and the force of the air along with the force of the water.....blasts the hose away from the metal screw tip which seals the hose and makes it usable to screw something on to that. Well now, I'm in a bit of a pickle because it's an old
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That's when I accept that some things just aren't gonna work out!

But Hey.....I can't let my clients down so that's when I went to my truck and brought out MY hose......
Just incase such things occur.)

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.The patio looks marvelous!!
Have a nice Monday.....Mr. Crowley
SmileyCat : )

Answer 3

When you have exhausted every option, tried your best to the fullest extent, hung in there until someone else cut you off for good, and spent all your energy and time on something when all you got back was nothing. This is the story of my life, lol, but hang in there. If it's not working out it's a blessing in diguise to try something else.

Answer 4

always make a sincere attempt to solve the issue, having hope and also a positive attitude that things can be worked out if only you persist. try and try again and you will succeed at last. but if you start with negativity in the mind and pessimism, it takes you no where.

Answer 5

When someone else tells you...

I'm sorry man, things just aren't gonna work out.

Answer 6

I think this varies from one character to another. There are some people who mislead themselves in a degree that it is better for them to deny reality than to accept the fact that he/she isn't in control.
And then there are other people who analyze the situation hopefully in a calm manner, and then inevitably get to the conclusion that some things won't get them where they want to go. And then maybe they try to get "there" in another way.

Answer 7

When you are ready to. You can't be told, you need to discover it for yourself. Try to step back from the situation and see the issue clearly. If you are angry then your judgement will be clouded. Try to take some time away, clear your head and find in yourself what is important. Don't make rash decisions, you may regret it later. I know I did.

Answer 8

the sooner you realize that some things will not work out no matter what you do the sooner you can stop wasting your time and start to focus onto things that will work out for you.when progress no longer occurs regress is sure to follow.discern when this happens and move along.

Answer 9

Never in theory, I usually try a couple of times and then comes the conclusion <>. That goes for anything especially relationships, family, coworkers, etc

Answer 10

It's like this man...sometimes things just get to be such a pain that you have to accept it as it is and move on...no one changes because they just wake up one day and decide to do something positive...people have to experience pain before they are motivated. Good luck.