There are many techniques to do this, all depend on the person doing it. For starters, take more time in pleasing her; this is called foreplay. Caress every inch of her body except her breasts and genitals for at least a good 10 to 20 minutes, interchanging constantly your hands and your lips: this means touching softly, not grabbing. This will no doubt arouse you, but stay focused on giving her more pleasure than you receive.
After this she will most likely direct your hands where she feels she needs them most, prolong this for as long as possible or before she goes "there" herself. Then again, in those erogenous zones take your time and think only about the pleasure you are providing her- listen to her breathing, moaning and her words.
When she is ready to be penetrated, she will be as horny as you, or hopefully more. Therefore, even if you ejaculate instantly it would have still been worth her while.
The times you both just want to have sex with no foreplay, while you are inside her, listen to her breathing- concentrate on it. When her breathing accelerates, then you can think about how it is making you feel and ejaculate when need be.
If this doesn't work, try thinking bad thoughts- your grandma naked, Dr. Phil naked, or how to assemble a carburator. The more you think about the pleasure you are feeling, the quicker it will be, so try thinking of any other thing.
Good Luck!
2006-07-08 22:40:33
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answered by canguroargentino 4
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There are many creams, lotions that have a slight numbing effect on the penis but also for some, the use of a condom prolongs ejaculation. At worst, some toothache remedies such as Orajel or hemorrhoidal tratments such as Nupercaine would work...use a very small amount...too much will cause all loss of sensitivity.
2006-07-09 06:25:58
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answered by Frank 6
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Moan some other girl's name shortly before ejaculation.
2006-07-09 05:33:20
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answered by Odin M 3
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Mind control! Think of something that turns you off! Like some old bum that smells of urine! Try that and see how it works! ( This is based on the premonition that old stinky bums do not excite you!)
2006-07-09 05:35:58
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answered by Jimmy Pete 5
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put chewing gum in your mouth during sex.
2006-07-09 05:49:31
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answered by ad786_alcatel 3
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idk but i would like too cuz ive been asked by a girl " omg are alreardy finished
2006-07-09 06:05:37
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answered by Anonymous
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dont know.
2006-07-09 05:49:26
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answered by Hitman from Hell 2
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