How can a man one day say that he loves you and enjoys being with you (even after 2 and a half years) one day, then gets mad over something someone else says, leaves and doesnt contact you for 2 days. and when you go to his house he is with another girl.. tells you he doesnt want to be with you anymore,and tells the girl your not his old lady and he doesnt want to be with you in front of you? so easily, how? and why?
2006-07-08 22:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by giggleswsb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not men. It's humans we all do it, both men and woman but its always the one that is left behind that is hurt the most. I wish I had some good advice to make you feel better but I don't. He is most likely in the honeymoon period of his new relationship, don't bother trying to rationalize his actions. Just move on.
2006-07-08 22:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Odie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting mad at something someone else said, as a basis for ending a relationship is an untenable excuse. Men like the hunt...the chase to get you, once you are in the net you hold little or no interest anymore, especially if you are not married. Believe it or not his reaction to you is his way of showing off. His macho side screaming, I am done with you. In fact all he may have been looking for while he was with you could be just sex. On the other hand you may have unknowingly done something that sent him packing. Trust me he is not worth going after. Get over him quickly and move on with your life. Know that not all men are like him and there is someone out there for you, compassionate, caring, loving.
2006-07-09 05:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by wemimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all dont turn this into a gender issue cuz i have seen some women do WAY WORSE than men..so u shouldnt ask why men are heartless it should be why are people so heartless..cuz u got some of these gold diggin *** females out there who dont care about no one but them selves..so there are players on both sides not just men...i understand u were hurt and i am sorry for that cuz no one should have to go thru that..but dont make it seem like all men are just complete asses and ask a question like that, which is a generalization on all guys..some of these women need to look at some of yall female counterparts before u man bash
2006-07-09 06:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by eugene b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its heartbreaking to know this.Accept.move ahead.He doesnt deserve u.Its more to do with him as a person,not that he is a man that is making him heartless.I ve known a heartless girl who left her boyfriend (in a livein relationship) without even telling him she s loving somebody else.
2006-07-09 05:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess both men and women can be heartless. Maybe you need to learn something from this- like now you know what it is to be hurt and you will try to be considerate of others feelings. You sound young and resilient. Move on and enjpy your life.
2006-07-09 05:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really sorry. You must have observed he's changed a little recently. I think getting mad was just a tool for him to break up with you and give you the impression that you are the one who is guilty.
2006-07-09 05:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a blessing in disguise. Just make better choices next time. He obviously doesn't believe in Karna. You are better off in the long run. Jerks unfortunately roam the earth. Keep your chin up it gets better.
2006-07-09 05:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt sound like a man your ? should be, How can boys be so heartless? its not worth it if he loved you he would not act like that.
2006-07-09 05:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...sounds like your man is a jerk who was looking for a convenient reason to get out of his commitment to you so he can mess around with other women. yeah, he's heartless. selfish too. find someone better who deserves you.
2006-07-09 05:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by magginine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do not have enough blood to fill their heart and their dick at the same time. if it wakes up, sucks the blood from the heart and they become heartless.
2006-07-09 05:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋