I just bought a house and I'm having money problims. Now the man I'm seeing wants me to take in his dead beat brother. They are talking that he would give me somewhere about $50 to $75 a month to live here to cover his food.
I don't want to do this because it would put me farther in the hole money wise, and when I asked him if he would help me with the yard work he said he has a bad back. ( NOT)
All of this happeneing makes me feel like breacking up with my boyfriend. I been dating him for 13 yrs. I don't live with him and he doesn't ever help me.
2006-07-08 20:52:07 · 5 answers · asked by Tedi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whatever you do, don't let the dead beat brother live with you. I had my husband's half-brother and friend stay with us for two weeks and I thought I was going to go crazy. If your boyfriend never helps you out maybe it is a sign to move on. My husband helped me out many times financially before we were married (now we have a joint checking account). Good luck!
2006-07-08 20:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Precious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont let it happen if you need omebody to live with you at least put up an ad do interviews and background cheks. oh yeah get rid of the guy 13 year no marrige or even movin in not goin anywhere move on
2006-07-09 04:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by ksneon66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what have u been doing for 13 years then if u still have to fake urself infront of him!!
2006-07-09 03:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by the freakin' analyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no u dun have too if he will break up over that then blah his not worth it but u dun have to do that crap he should know that he is ur man who should care abt u!
2006-07-09 03:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your boyfriend or his brother walk all over you.
2006-07-09 04:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋