He comes to me only when he needed.He is totaly dependentet on parents and when i want to talk about some futre plans,he tries to get out.I am worried about my futre.For this reason sometimes I compare him with one of my friend,Can anyone help me?
2006-07-08 20:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by priyanka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep yourself occupied Priyanka. Many Indian men have been brought up in a very protective manner in India..so even when they are married, they still depend on their parents which brings unhappines to the spouse. Tum unko samjhao naa!! Aur agar tum padhee likhee ho, toh koi naukari karo, independent hona seekho. Shayad tumharay kaam karnay se tumhare patidev ko kucch sahara milay aur woh tumharay in-laws par depend hona band karr dain.
Make sure you do the above in a very modest manner. Do not challenge him, just try and make him understand.
All the best my friend!!!
2006-07-08 21:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 3⤋
When your husband doesn't "give you any time" you may consider taking an English course. You might meet new friends, and possibly learn how to spell correctly and how to speak proper English. Just a suggestion.
2006-07-08 20:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, why did u marry him? It would be hard to believe that he just started acting this way. I suggest counseling-immediately b4 u end of regretting him.
2006-07-08 20:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and have a long talk you need to ask him is he dating you or his parents let him know you do not have problem with his closeness to his parents but you need to work on things between you 2 good luck
2006-07-08 20:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by crazyforcoke34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find reasons why your husband is doing it, then as soon as you find out, make changes to urself or whatever it has to be.
2006-07-08 20:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by kevinjohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just ignore him for a while u spend more times with friends u'll have a fight and u can make ur rules :D
2006-07-08 20:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely let him know how you feel. If he is not open to your feelings then you may want to re-evaluate your relationship.
2006-07-08 20:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by peace_n_luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join me as a friend u will never feel lonely hehe lol
2006-07-08 21:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a big problem, u better talk to ur mother-in-law or father-in-law abt this, they might help u.. or talk to ur parents abt this
2006-07-09 19:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by krazy_about_girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can be ur friends and will try to resolve ur problems
2006-07-08 20:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by shikha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋