he's a troublmaker..you know the ganbangin type (a blood) and we've known and been friends with each other since little kids..i trust him and know he'd never hurt me despite his harsh nature with other people..but should i trust him with my virginity? and is it all he wants from me since he's constantly asking me??
2006-07-08 20:21:39 · 26 answers · asked by perish 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My sense is you really already know the answer to this question. But as a way to answer you let me ask: Why do you think you've even posted this question here? The fact that you're asking leads me to believe that you don't want to do this. I will tell you that you're still young and you want to wait until you find someone that you really care about and really cares about you before you start having sex. If he is asking all the time, it doesn't sound like he really cares about how you feel about it. Ask yourself what it really means to you to have sex, how your relationship with him will change after you've had sex, how you're going to feel after you've had sex (and whether those feelings are something you can share with him), and whether this guy can give you the kind of sexual experience you really want (particularly for your first time). My guess is that if you're really honest with yourself, you'll find that this isn't the time or the guy to being doing something so special with. There's no rush (he shouldn't be rushing you into making a decision either). So, take your time and make sure you make the best decision for you.
2006-07-08 20:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by cidhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by machey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't have sex with him. You are 13 it doesnt matter how long you have known him because having sex is just going to ruin everything for you. If you got pregnant what would you do? If you care about him then when you get older get married and then if you do have a baby you have your husband right there. Not to mention, you will know the person you had sex with is going to be there for you. You have a whole life ahead of youf ro sex, but not a lot of years to enjoy being a youth and hanging out with friends.
2006-07-09 17:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Fourtonfour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already the answer to the question you asked! THREE reasons: 1) He's a gangbanger 2) He has a 'harsh' nature with people?! 3) He's CONSTANTLY asked you to have sex!? First off, gangbangers are people who can 'potentially' MURDER other people just over territory or race. Second, with a 'harsh' nature, he could turn on you as SOON as he gets what he wants! Be CAREFUL! If he's putting PRESSURE on you to have sex, then he's not going to be around in the long run. Your first time should be with someone who's a GOOD person to you and to others...someone you can 200% TRUST, and someone who LOVES you and will make LOVE to you...not just want to have sex. Please, just remain his friend. If he cares about you, he will NOT pressure you! And *if* you do decide to go aheard, PLEASE use a condom!!! If not to get pregnant, to prevent getting a sexually transmitted disease! Love yourself FIRST!
2006-07-08 20:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Secret Blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he is a gangbanger he dont even deserve to be free he should be living behind bars, gangs dont make for a good future it only gets worse, its definitely not a good life style, most gangbangers are druggies which tells me that chances are he is too, if you give your virginity to him, you are just going to be another number to him (how many girls he has had), and being only 13 years old you shouldnt even be thinking about that, you still have a lot of life left. Dont become another number, and go be young and have fun, with people that are worth it. Good luck
2006-07-08 20:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if your even asking yourself whether or not your ready your not. The blunt truth is that sex gets you in trouble. I got pregnant at 17. And yes...if he is constantly asking then that is all he wants. Don't trust him and dump him. He sounds like a good for nothing loser if you ask me.
2006-07-08 20:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by dafunkypunka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter how long you've known him.If you give it up to him,you will have to live with many regrets.You're 13 don't confuse love with lust.Save your virginity for a more deserving "man" not a boy! You'll be glad you did!
2006-07-08 20:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it is way too early for you to give up your virginity...Making love is a very special and romantic thing between two people , and usually they are in love...I do not see this happening here...If he is trying to get you to do it don't..If he cared about you he wouldn't even think about asking you ,,,Thi may not be the one ..you may find someone later on and wish that you had saved yourself for him..You ae too young to be having sex...
2006-07-08 20:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh girl don't do it untill ur like 16 or 17 i am 12 turning 13 in nov. keep ur virginity
oh and i am a virgin but just from all the stories i herd: don't do it
2006-07-15 09:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13. You have your whole life to lead! Give it up to your husband. It is a very special gift! Save it for your husband. Not to a little looser that is in a gang.
2006-07-08 20:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋