what do i do
2006-07-08 20:15:34 · 12 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont hang with him and go to the teachers
2006-07-08 20:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to be in a situation like this. It is probably very complicated and made worse by peer pressure or fear that he will hurt you more if you try to stay away. I have a couple of questions. Have you talked to your parents about this? There are adults at school....counselors, etc. that might be able to give you good advice but your family should be where you get your best advice. This can't go on. Is the bully like this to other people? Has the school had to deal with him before? Are you afraid that if you bring your parent(s) into this that you will look bad?
You need to stay away from abusive people. It might be worth some embarrassment to bring adults into this mess. It will only get worse. I don't want to see you have to defend yourself, but you may have to do that. You need to be confident in yourself. You do not need this person in your life. You may want to find interests that keep you busy and away from this person. You may want to take a self defense class...not so you can fight but so that you will feel confident if you had to defend yourself. If a bully senses you are not afraid, they will back off. But again, you need adults to help you with this...not to fight your battle but so you will have the use of their wisdom and experience then you can confidently handle this problem.
2006-07-09 03:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel well i dont but my brother might.. this kid acts like he is his friend and the next minute he is punching him.. He did this for a long time but that changed when i finally had enough.. i walked up to him and i said if he ever touched my brother again that there was going to be problems and his stupid friends were like oh were so scared in a stupid was being rude and me not being in the mood i said YEAH YOU BETTER BE.. and from that day on they left him alone.. so you need to stop hanging out with them kid before you get hurt really bad.. have you told your mom or dad teacher consler anyone ..you can report him to the cops too if he keeps it up so dont hang around him he is doing this to you becuz others do it to him.. but dont let that stop you from being GOOD.. ok. well if oyu have any other ? i will keep looking back and i will answer them for you..bye MaCkEnZiE
2006-07-09 03:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever put their hands on you. Tell your parents so that this issue can be resolved don't be embarrassed. Don't let some one make you feel confused about friendships. Bully's need to be stopped or removed from participating in a regular school day setting. They have schools for bully's plus he could do something really bad to you which could be life changing.
2006-07-09 04:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure this is pretty tough on you. People who bully are not your friends and they usually bully others to cover up for their own fears and insecurities. It gives them a false sense of control. Don't put your self in a situation to be bullied. Make teachers and your parents aware of what is happening. Stay away from the people bullying you. Swallow your pride and ask for help.
2006-07-09 08:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by solisue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bot your friend, and you know that. I dont promote violence but stand up to him, or if you can't do that, stay away from him. Nobody deserves to be bullied, and treated that way. Your real friend is somewhere out there.
2006-07-09 03:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by c_teague87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He;s not your friend. Tell him to back off, if that doesn't work, hit him back. Even if he is bigger than you, he won;t pick on you if he knows you will fight back, it's too much of a hassle. If he hits you hard enough, thats evidence for an assault charge. That will REALLY cool his jets.
2006-07-09 03:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knock him square between his eyes as hard as you can. Seriously, stand up for yourself. Once you do that, bullies almost always back down and leave you alone.
2006-07-09 03:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Leigh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real friends don't do that unless there just having a joke but if he does this regularly then don't hang out with him
2006-07-09 03:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by family guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would avoid him as much as possible. if you think theres a real problem do you not think your parents can help?
2006-07-09 03:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋