2006-07-08 19:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Learn the "Herd" mentality...
DONT follow the herd!! Lead by example. If you see a problem..solve it. if you see a need...Try and give TO it.
Keep to yourself that which is yours...Give to the herd what is the herds..but keep to your what is yours.
trust No One...except yourself.
trust that in the final analysis..your the only being that should matter to you. After all..when its your time..no one else is going to be stepping up to that plate. Enjoy life...and all it has to offer.
2006-07-08 19:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by G-Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll assume your question pertains to leadership, not strangeness (standing out due to negative differences).
To stand out among the group, one must posess a shared likeness of the majority in that group. They (the majority) must recognize this individual as one who posesses what they lack, be it connections, language, acute skills, popularity, generosity, cunning, intelligence, etc... The leader must be well-liked and like-minded for the particular group. We wouldn't want a military leader who is not cunning. We would, however want a military leader who is very intelligent, perceptive, and experienced. Conversely, a group of steel workers have little use for someone who is a highly-skilled guitarist. Simply put, it's context-sensitive, and only applies to that particular group.
If you're wanting to know how to identify this groups needs/wants, perhaps a better-worded question is in order.
2006-07-09 03:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by BeLiaL = 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat others as you would wish to be treated.
But... if someone screws you over, payback is a *****.
2006-07-09 02:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patiance and being true to yourself. let others act the fool.
2006-07-09 02:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Be civil to all, social to many, friend to one, enemy to none"...
2006-07-09 03:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by fancee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋