PLEASE!!! GIRLS AND WOMEN ONLY!!!!i like this girl and she likes me, we've liked eachother for a while... she told me she wanted to get with me, and i told her that i wanted to get with her but i wanted to talk to her more in person, so we went on sort of a date u can call it and before the end of the night i told her i think we should hook up and then she paused and i asked her if she was just gonna ignore the situation and she said no then paused again.... so i said do you need time to think and she said yea. in your oppinion do, what do you think a girl means when she needs time to think?
Also this happend four days ago and i dont know wheather to call her or not, because before all this happend we were talking about every other day for about 2 weeks.... what do you think i should do?
2006-07-08 19:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by letgodjudge17 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I don't think she likes you the same way you like her. And let her call you... don't call her. Good luck though.
2006-07-08 19:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by "hooking up" you meant sex...that is usually a much more serious subject to a lady than it is to a guy. A women does need time (usually) to decide if they want to take that serious of a step. Even if you just meant to move to the next level & become in a serious relationship, she apparently has her doubts. Give her a little more time. If you haven't heard from her, call her & find out how she feels. It may have made her uncomfortable.
2006-07-08 19:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Me in TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and be yourself. Don't pressure her for "hooking up".Ask her how she feels and let her know that if she has changed her mind it's alright. Be a desirable man not someone to avoid. Ask her for another date. Take it easy. Things usually work out the way they should.
2006-07-08 19:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends!!
did u actually say "hook up"
or like "do u wanna go out with me"
i think when guyz say "hook up" it means like u know touchy touchy,
but if u asked it the correct way,
im not sure
in my opinion,
call her and ask did u do something wrong.
good luck
2006-07-08 19:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her, ask her what she thinks and ask her if she would lead you on or be honest and that you need the truth even if it hurts, if she is a good respectable girl she will be honest with you.
2006-07-08 19:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't talk to her wait, if she doesn't call is because she was not ready to be with someone yet
2006-07-08 19:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by car4423 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you f***** up!
2006-07-08 19:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by PDre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋