I'm a virgo and my boyfriend is a cancer. We have so much fun together and are very much in love, this is the happiest he's in awhile, but are the stars against us or with us?
2006-07-08 19:19:34 · 12 answers · asked by Kit 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
The stars are in the sky. Leave them there, and work with your boyfriend here on Earth.
2006-07-08 19:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Leon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not one bit. If you allow the sky at your birth to determine your lives then fatally you will perish from within. I know of innumerable combinations of people of signs that wouldn't be considered "Good Matches" ~ Well who has the last laugh? I have known "COUNTLESS" people who have beat these odds....oh and what about he 22 new planets they have found in our solar system? I have studied Astrology and Numerology for a very long time....over 30 years.....remember always that here will always be free will.
Personally I am a Virgo....and it is said that my best mates signs are the other earth signs, Taurus and Capricorn...however I did have an 18 year marriage with a Libra...and 3 Libra boyfriends.
My alliance with cancer men is perhaps different that yours.....Virgo women are enchanting and adore communication...wherein the cancer male will tend to 'recede'...to ebb away....and need solace in music or privacy. I have loads of cacerian friends and though they are extrem,ely particular...they have a wit about them that is wonderful..they can spend money like crazy then surprise you with haveing salted it away......often they are so shy in gift givig ....such as picking one out that they freeze up....as they do NOT want to ake a mistake.
They have fabulous libidos...(great for the Virgo woman!) and they love music, food...oh not cookig it though! Once fed and warered, you have a puppy dog on your hands. They are great at being impulsive, so Virgo are you game for this? Right now we are inthe middle of a retrograde and it will end on the 28th of this month. Just take adversity in stride......and feel free to love. The call for Universal love is well met with these two signs....though the Cancer Can hold a grudge....and later after some time alone.....they are soft and reassuring. They are a great example of a love of music, inventing, fun in any social gathering...they surprise you by being the life of the Party!
Virgos enhance the Cancerian and vice versa......spats are generally quick..and though it might be difficult for thge Cancer to commit....they do..and oh once they do...it is for GOOD!
And the loyal loving Virgo, is there to nurture and Listen.....and they will often laugh in tandem.
My Partner is a Taurus....perfect for me....he proposed to me tonight...."REALLY!" ~ the cancer will be the love of the Virgo's life.....and I would assume it would be a mutual thing. just make sure that you are on track with each other and rememer..."Listening is the better part of conversation..."
Frpm there you really cannot go wrong. hold each others hearts,secrets, sorrows....and have a great life! I wish you the best!
2006-07-09 04:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When Cancer and Virgo make a love match, a strong, down-to-earth relationship with staying power is the happy result. This is a relationship with great potential to get better and better over the passing years. Both Cancer and Virgo are goal-oriented and disciplined. They are sincere and devoted to one another and share a strong sense of purpose. No lightweight love here: These two were not really built for flings! Cancer and Virgo deeply admire one another: Virgo respects Cancer's quiet strength and dedication while Cancer appreciates Virgo's keen adaptability and intelligence.
These lovers may get off to a slow start, but over time, bonds will only grow stronger. The Cancer-Virgo love match prides itself on common sense and strong principles over fluff and inconsequential or fleeting connections. They enjoy the material comforts of life, but they will only feel good about their bounty if it has come as a result of honest hard work. There could be tiffs if Virgo becomes too critical for Cancer's easily bruised feelings; Cancer needs to understand that it's just Virgo's nature to point out what they observe, that it's not a personal attack. A Virgo may bristle at their Cancer mate's stubborn streak, but it's a trait that a patient and understanding love partner like Virgo could come to appreciate. Also, Virgo's urge to serve suits Cancer's affectionate, nurturing nature well.
The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Mercury (Communication) rules Virgo. Though they're very different planets, they're both near the Sun and therefore always in one another's neighborhoods. The Moon is a mothering influence; it's about cultivation and fostering growth, which are both central concerns for Cancer. Mercury is all about communication, and it's an androgynous energy -- Virgo will adapt and take on the form that it chooses, the guise that best serves a situation. Virgo takes an intellectual approach to life (especially compared to the emotional Cancer), but still manages to be perceptive and intuitive enough to figure others out if they choose. Good thing for the Crab, then, that a Virgo mate can get a feel for devotion and domestic fulfillment if that's what their Cancer lover desires. These two won't argue about fulfilling one another's needs. They'll work at it and relish the rewards of their conscientiousness.
Cancer is a Water Sign, and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Earth Signs, true to their name, are down-to-earth, but they can also be materialistic and preoccupied with acquisition. The Cancer-Virgo love partners like to surround themselves with comfortable, well-crafted things. Water Signs rely on feeling and intuition, making Cancer the emotive force behind this relationship, in a subtle Cancer way, of course. Along with their desire for prosperity, their love of a fancy home life ensures that this couple will work hard toward this shared goal. Also, they're practical pair, and losing control is never really an issue.
Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. While Cancer gets things going, Virgo thrives on a changing routine of responsibilities and challenges. Because they're so ubiquitous, Virgo will find a place in Cancer's plans if they really want to. Virgo will keep in mind Cancer's plans, and will eventually bring results even if Cancer has moved on.
What's the best aspect of Cancer-Virgo relationship? Their dedication to working toward the same goals. Both partners in this love match enjoy a stable home life and nice things, and Virgo truly enjoys helping Cancer along the way to achieving their goals. Their shared goals and desires make theirs a highly compatible love match.
2006-07-09 07:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by love. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So much makes up your charts and who you are - and who you are together. If you are happy, the stars are likely with you. I am a virgo and two of my all time favorite boyfriends were cancer sun. In the first case it was international differences that made us seperate and the other it was age difference.
Peace!
2006-07-09 03:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgos belong with Geminis such as my hot-*** self. The stars are against you but deceive you.
2006-07-09 02:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really who gives a shi.
go with the flow
start asking questions like that and you will create a problem
its ok to be happy
2006-07-09 02:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the stars all died billions and zillions of years ago, no their not against you
2006-07-09 02:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by DUD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever you want them to be.... it forreal dont matter, unless you want it too...
"if you hold it in you mind like, then it's real, see?"
2006-07-09 02:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by homemadeplaydough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter (its all a bunch of bull@#%*)
2006-07-09 06:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jesse C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-09 03:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by gokul d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋