I neesd to know the best way to find a wife who will marry me for me, and not my millions. any suggestions??

Question

I have over $40 million, but I am still single because the moment a woman I am attracted to finds out whio I am and about my money, the whole relation ship chgangesw and gets focused on my money and not on each other spercifically. How can I find a very attractive, loyal and intelleigent woman to marry, without her learning of my money?

Answer 1

That is a pretty tough question. I'm no millionaire, but my suggestion is to not try and hide anything about yourself at all. Be open and honest from the get go, because that is what you expect from them. I would not spend a lot of money on them on your first few dates, because a money hungry woman would expect that, and be upset if you didn't. A decent woman that really liked you would be happy with a McDonald's pinic in the park. Just be honest with who you are, and don't ever think that your money has anything to do with finding a good woman. The good women won't care about how much money you spend on them, or how much you have.

Answer 2

Usually women like that are very shallow. Just be yourself. When your having a conversation and she ask you what you do for a living don't volunteer the whole picture be discreet. Obviously with the caliber of lifestyle that you must have it's apparent it's flashy. Perhaps you could not try so hard let love find you. When the time is right that person will come into your life. For now have female friends something can transpire from that. Surround yourself around positive fun loving Friends. Sometimes wealthy people are uptight and don't know what average is especially if thier born into a wealthy family,on the other hand someone who becomes successful forgets where they came from and have set higher expectations.Relax and don't focus on this and it will come to you. Just always remember Positive attracts Positive and if your alot of fun to be around with a great personality there's no reason someone would'nt be attracted to you.

Answer 3

FOR SOME REASON, I DO NOT BELIEVE YOU HAVE FORTY MILLION DOLLARS, OR ARE WORTH THAT,

IF YOU ARE GREAT, IF YOU USE YOUR MONEY AS YOUR IDENTITY, THEN WHAT DO YOU EXPECT, AND IF THAT IS ALL YOU HAVE GOING FOR YOU IS A HUGE BANK BALANCE, I SUGGEST YOU LEARN SOME OTHER SOCIAL SKILLS, AND GET NEW INTERESTS,

GENERALLY PEOPLE WITH MEGA BUCKS ARE IN DIFFERENT CIRCLES, WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHO HAVE MEGA BUCKS,,,

WHY DID YOU EVEN SAY $40 MILLION? WHY DO YOU SAY WHEN THE MOMENT A WOMAN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO FINDS OUT "WHO YOU ARE"

WELL, WHO ARE YOU, ?
ANYWAY, IF YOU HAVE BIG BUCKS LIKE YOU SAY, THEN USE SOME OF IT , AND HAVE A DOUBLE LIFE, A BASIC APT, AVERAGE CAR, ETC, AND GO FOR WHATEVER, AND SEE IF YOU CAN GET A WOMAN TO LOVE YOU FOR BEING "GOOD OLD AVERAGE JOE" IT SHOULD BE NO PROBLEM,, NOW IF YOU WANT TO FIND A WOMAN ON YOUR LEVEL FINANCIALLY, YOU BETTER HAVE THE MONEY FIRST, AND THERE ARE BEVERLY HILLS, SOCIAL CLUBS ETC , VACATIONS IN THE WORLD OF MONEY PEOPLE, SHOP WHERE THE MONEY IS ETC,,, IF YOU ARE FOR REAL,
GOOD LUCK
PS. YOU COULD ALWAYS SEND EVERY YAHOO ANSWER THAT YOU L IKE A MILLION,, AND THEN YOU WON'T BE LYING, AND YOU WOULD MAKE US ALL VERY HAPPY.

Answer 4

Oh well, if you are telling the truth, then you could try living more like a normal person than a millionaire. Get a decent living accommodation while you're looking for that special someone. Don't give them the opportunity of knowing you are rich up front, just let them know that you are a hard worker at living comfortable. They may also take the security thing to an extreme if they are gold diggers. But, you can date the female of your interest under these conditions until you're sure you want to take it to the next level which should be when you feel they want you for who you are. Don't lie about being rich, just don't splurge so she'll try and take advantage. It's guys like you who females like me don't have an opportunity to meet. My day will be when my prayers are answered. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Don't tell her.
Relationships shouldn't be about money.
You have to find a woman who wants you for yourself, and not what you can give her or what you can do for her.

If you find someone you truly like, play your cards close to the vest for awhile. Be very low-key about your finances. Do with her the type of things people who who are dating and don't have 40 million dollars usually do...go to the movies, go bowling, go to Pizza Hut, AppleBee's, camping, hiking etc...and do it while driving a 'regular' car...nothing too expensive or too sporty.
Skip the fancy restaurants, vacations, sailing on your yacht, expensive gifts, and taking her to your house for awhile.


When you find someone that you think you might be interested in and the subject of what you do for a living comes up...you don't have to lie, you can always just say something to the effect of..."I am involved in working on..." Make it short and sweet, and then re-route the conversation by asking her some questions about herself.

Personally, looks may be great but I would rate intelligence and loyalty above them..a good sense of humor doesn't hurt either.

Good Luck to you on your quest~*

Answer 6

I don't have that much in the bank but I have enough. I would strongly suggest you find a woman who is your peer. Perhaps one who has her own money. Or one who certainly doesn't care about yours. That is hard to find. But I'll tell you where to look. The chics who go to fundraiser events, black tie parties and volunteer for Junior League ... they won't be impressed with $40 million.

The best relationship is one between equally matched adversaries that hits stalemate. I'm very careful about who I go out with because I've learned that I'm sort of a prize in the eyes of a lot of women. Not quite the jackpot you are. Volunteer for organizations that are well financed ... that is where you will meet your woman who loves you for you and doesn't think twice about your money.

Answer 7

Hi, the best way to find a good woman to love and not your money is to
act like a regular guy meanin don't tell them that u have money
you could buy a nice aparment and where nice close and date someone but don't tell her that u r rich for a little while and then drop the bomb and if they chance afterwards well you know what that means they love your money. look at the bright side at least heart hasn't been broken like million times. GOOD LUCK FINDING THE ONE,you will find the one girl that adores you the way u r supposed to be adore and gives you her heart, soul and,her all.

Answer 8

Yes...lose the millions. Sorry, women to money = fly to ****. Force of nature. Of course LOVE is an even stronger force of nature, but a formula for finding TRUE does not exist.

You can pretend to be a broke psychopath and if she still like you reveal yourslef! though she may like ONLY broke psychopaths in which case pretend to be broke psychopath all your life while keeping all the $$ and fortune for self and whores.

Oh and lastly don't listen to the dude that tells you to go after a woman that already HAS money. Those are even more obesessed about money than regular chicks and would think NOTHING of stealing yours because their previous fortune was probably stolen from another naive dude like you. :)

Answer 9

You could give all your money away (like to me, heh). Then anyone who will marry you will be for you and not your millions.

Thing of it is, unless you're a trust fund baby, the acquisition of money is a big part of who you are, and probably what you spend a good deal of your time dealing with. Managing an estate like yours does take up a large amount of time, either your own or some trusted financial advisor(s).

You are just going to have to trust your instincts, if you can. If you try to hide the money before you marry her, how can she trust you not to hide other things (like an affair) from her?

If you are worried about loyalty, have her sign a prenup. If you don't want to share your fortune with your spouse, then reconsider what you DO want a spouse for.

Regular sex? You can afford to hire someone for that.

Life partner? Then she is going to share in the management and spending of the money, so she should be allowed to know about it an enjoy it with you.

And what is all this money FOR? So you can play golf 5 days/week? Are you running a business and this 40 mil is your net worth?

If you're looking for a trophy wife, realize that's going to be expensive in any case. If you're worried she'll take you for half and divorce you in a short time, that's what prenuptual agreements are for. And the uber rich have them all the time. because families want to protect their dynasty.

And I suspect you ARE looking for a trophy wife, because the FIRST attribute in your future wife is "very attractive", with intelligent being last on your list. Get your priorities straight, and the woman might actually love you.

Here's a question for you: How is your wife going to know if you love her for her for anything other than her looks? And can she trust you to not dump her for someone half her age when she gets old and less attractive? Or are you going to force her to undergo surgery to attempt to maintain her youthful looks?

Once you reorder your own priorities (intelligence, loyalty, physical attractiveness), things should fall into place.

Good luck to you.

Answer 10

Don't let her know about your money. Find a nice lady that cooks and clean for you. Pretend you have no job, live in a regular house, drive an old radgely car, and then try dating some one your interested in, try a woman from another state or city that doesn't know about your wealth. You'll know she's the one when she laughs and talk with you about ordinary things. Money will be no issue to her. After the fact let her know about the wealth.