2006-07-08 19:17:29 · 11 answers · asked by jenggay 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Who is to say what you can or can't do? You own your own soul, your own personal bubble, and if your partner understands that concept (which he should), you should never feel restrained to pursue whatever you feel will bring the best out of you. That way you will contribute to that or any other relationship to a much greater extent (consequently, perhaps a man won't need to "look" for something new outside of that circle). To illustrate my point, according to the flight instructions in case of an emergency, when the pressure in the airplane drops and the oxygen masks come down, the rule number 1 for a mother is to first PUT THE MASK on herself and then reach out to the child in her lap. Simple logic here, if she solely focuses on the child, she may faint in the process and then neither one gets the mask. Hope I was able to convey my point here. It is very much about self-preservation for the better projection of the selflessness (not selfishness) in a long run.
2006-07-08 20:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by gudrun077 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can and should do what ever makes you happy. You do not have to tell anyone what you are doing. If it makes you happy and it does not hurt anyone else, do it.
I have had sex with many married women over the years and it was a turn around in their lives. So many American housewives are bored to tears and have husbands that hardly know they exist. Many husbands drink too much or use drugs or do not bathe and this makes them very unattractive to their wives. If a man does not take care of his business there are always men like me that will take care of it for him.
Soooooooooo have a fling ! Have fun. Do not be constrained by the idea of one man, one woman. That never did work. It has always been bull !
2006-07-09 02:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by sonny_too_much 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and communication are key. What is good for one is good for the other.When involved in a relationship and you have sex outside it,you expose not only you but your partner to any and every thing or person right down the chain. Don't they deserve the right to make an informed decision??? Peace.
2006-07-09 02:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are selfish pigs who only care about their own pleasure and how much money they can drain off a man. And as soon as they have drained him dry they kick him to the curb and move on to the next poor sucker.
Gawd I hate my ex-wife so much.
2006-07-09 02:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Meredith L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"A known enemy is better than a strange friend"...goes the saying... May be just a psychological factor. Basically men are better convergent focused, and women divergently focused, in their mind sets.
2006-07-09 02:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is hard to answer, because what is ok for you to do is completely dependent on your own limits. But if you restrain yourself to yourself, then nothing will change. This makes your question a moot one.
Expand your own horizons.
2006-07-09 02:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by ashotinthedark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?! Why don't you try asking this in a proper format, with proper grammar and punctuation? I don't even have the slightest idea of what you're attempting to ask!
2006-07-09 02:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by michigaunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of can't. She doesn't think she can. If he is than why not. If he doesn't have time for the wife, she can have time for something new.
2006-07-09 02:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by redbarchetta2004@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a wild one-nigher. Get it out of your system, getting screwed senseless usually works :-)
2006-07-09 02:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by britney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with trying something new. 'SOMEONE' new now that's wrong, regardless of which one is doing it.
2006-07-09 02:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by bond_adambond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋