first off, I'M NOT GAY and i know i'm not don't worry. but i don't fit in with most guys just because they dont treat girls the way they should be treated. it confuses me but is it normal?
2006-07-08 19:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for example, i am pretty built and work out but i wouldnt be able to go to a gym with another guy and talk to them about guy things without wanting to punch them.
2006-07-08 19:33:28 · update #1
yes, I belive you should treat any woman in your life like they are a queen, women like a man that will show they have feelings, if you don't fit in with most guys don't worry while they are drinking there beer and working on their cars, you will be spending your time with their women, ( you win).
2006-07-08 19:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by citisat 3 · 10⤊ 4⤋
Well at least I agree, Nemo, because that's how I am..
A lot of guys seem to be shallow and talk about things that don't matter much--their cars, new stereos, lawmowers, and sound systems, etc.
Cultivate a few female friends --JUST friends, no thought of hanky-panky, and you may find an outlet for what you feel.
You are in touch with your feminine part, without being gay. I think that's a good thing/.
\But some typical guy things are also good. Jog or run, work out, tinker with cars ( just don't TALK about the cars), etc.
2006-07-09 02:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ABSOLUTELY ok for you to have "a lot of feelings" and to not fit in with other guys.
People aren't monolith's: They don't have to "be" a certain way just because that is what people say they should be. And feelings are never, ever a bad thing. Don't be afraid of your feelings. They aren't what make you strange... they are what make you normal.
2006-07-09 02:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by alvin_tostig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are very normal to have a lot of feelings. and you probably don't fit in with some guys in this way. in fact it means that you are in touch with your feelings, and are not afraid to be in touch with them. you have sensitivity, and not just for girls probably but for all things that matter. you seem to have a healthy sense of self. most people strive to be secure enough to then be able to care about and have feelings for things that society has made difficult for us to care about. just to add that many of my guy friends are like you.
2006-07-09 02:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and feel good about yourself that you don't want to disrepect girls like other guys do. You have feelings, you actually care. That's a rare find in a guy.
2006-07-09 02:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey having feelings does not have to mean anything about gay. There are more guys like you out there than you think. Stick to your feellings and you will be fine.
2006-07-09 02:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider yourself lucky. often people who only care about their looks and grabing as much a** as they can wind digging ditches. they relize in collage looks mean nothing. you will be smart. you'l probable be succecful. and marrie your hi school sweetheart. it's because your not like them. your mature and in control.
2006-07-09 02:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal your just one of those few great guys that are left out there.
2006-07-09 02:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋