i am going out w/ this guy(j) who i really lik we talk on the phone and its hours loong but we never really hang out or hes never realy asked me to hang w/ him!! and i really want to beacause i havnt seen him a a long time! but i dont want to tell him that i just wouldt know how to say it and other guys ask me out but people tell me i deserve better than what i have but i really love the guy im with even the realtion ship isnt perfect!!!!
2006-07-08 19:01:52 · 12 answers · asked by ever_aj_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just say you want to hang out with him sometime.
something like "lets hang out again sometime" with "its been ages" (you mentioned that you haven't seen him for a long time) out of the blue and if he really mean that much to you, you should go for it.
never know until you try. who knows, he might be waiting for you to ask him on the other end of the line.
2006-07-08 19:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont see him much then I think you need to tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him that you want to spend more time together. I mean there isnt too much to lose right? So just be up front and honest and if he still doesnt spend time with you then you got other options. Plus if he doesnt want to spend time with you then its his loss and maybe you should think how much he is missing out on that you arent.
2006-07-09 02:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by too_hott_4_uuuu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you see him?? Does he live that far away. If he doesn't live far away--then there is a real problem and you need to just ask him. You're friends have your best interest in mine--not the other guys asking you out.
2006-07-09 02:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I in the same situation. I know I deserve better but I love him so much so I just date other people but I set my limits because it hurts me to decieve him
2006-07-09 02:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by depressed confused and in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about movies find one you and him want to see and ask if you two can go togather and see where that gets you
2006-07-09 02:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's married.
2006-07-09 02:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you live close to him suprise your man by stopping by his house. even if you live a couple of milesaway it will be even a better suprise.
2006-07-09 02:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by christina f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that honey... he ain't worth ur time. listen to ur friends/family. sometimes they do know what is best... mine did
2006-07-09 02:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...ask the cell phone man....you only live once
2006-07-09 02:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about what is in your mind or heart maybe
2006-07-09 02:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋