imm at the hosptal and docs tell me shes gonna die
2006-07-08 18:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by trishie 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Cherish the times you've spent together... say your goodbyes, and say everything you've never said and always wanted to say... thank her for everything and anything that comes to mind... even if she cannot hear you, say them anyway... it will help your heart to heal. Let yourself cry... alot. Hug her, hug everyone, and hug yourself.
2006-07-08 18:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jaydt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close you really are to the person, people say these things that aren't comforting at all. I lost my husband August 2005 and I just get thru the day everyday. I haven't stopped crying and I don't want to be here without him. All my life I feared death and what it might take from me and now without my husband I only fear life. Life without him.
2006-07-08 19:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by g-day mate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone handles it differantly. some get numb, others cry alot. its hard to go through. my mother was the first one in the u.s. to die from the mad cow disease ( cjd). i watched her die the most horrible death and seen alot of death in my life. i was sad, angry, hated the world, wanted to be left alone. i couldn't cry. until we were all together to see her one last time on the way to the cemetary. the anger stays inside you. what could you have done. you feel guilty for things and regret for the things you never got to say. because it was so rare and doctors came in from around the world that i met in the hospital. i learned alot of what they knew as a researcher myself. all my doctors at the va i go to found out and put other doctors on standby to talk to me. but they were more interested in the rareity of it and my research and knowledge of it. i never got to talk to anyone about what i felt. i still carry it with me. you handle it the best way you can. if your lucky enough to have friends you can talk to or just be there for you if you need them is the best thing. you will get through it in time.
2006-07-08 19:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grieve as a natural process. I lost my dad in January and I was so beside myself, I knew he was old and sick, but he still is my dad. Grief overwhelmed me and I cried all day long when they told me they couldn't do anymore.
I took him home and stayed with him until it was over. I just wanted to sit with him and hold his hand while it was warm and remember how it felt because I knew the end was near.
2006-07-08 18:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never easy to say goodbye to someone we care about but just being there and telling them you love them and you'll be with them means alot to them. if they are a christian they know that God will take them home to heaven and than they wll have eternal life..I've lost several family members and I pray God will give you the strength to live on for them and cherish your memories..take care and i will pray for you both..stephanie56chevy@yahoo.com
2006-07-08 19:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie56chevy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Patience and Trust in The Almighty God
2006-07-08 18:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by I'M'ZIZOU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and that thru u, her memory will be present. Ask her to show you signs that she is still around you when she is gone. Hold her hand, You'll see her again.
2006-07-08 18:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by EssGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll first u talk to the person alot keep them as happy as u can and if the person does die just make shure to talk to someone and dont repress the death
2006-07-08 18:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by gamer_dude1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this site to learn the secret of life.
http://phifoundation.org/life.html
2006-07-08 18:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember all the good times and know that shes in a better place
2006-07-08 18:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by slyman202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋