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that you get when you love someone so much and would lay your whole life down for them, and you know that they feel the same and you'd find the fastest way to get married (we are 15)... basically, how do you describe the feeling that being in a real love with the perfect person gives you? is it describable?

2006-07-08 18:30:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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you will feel it more and later in life you will look back at this and laugh

2006-07-08 18:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by peakcox 4 · 0 0

Wow that has to be the frickin most amusing thing I have heard all day. You are 15 you cant honestly believe you know what love is. At 15 you only have the most basic understanding of relationships, love is the most complicated form of a relationship. If you get married as soon as you can then you are going to realize 10 years from now that you made a huge mistake and that you sacrificed your youth (the most precious thing you can have besides life itself) to a teenage girl that didnt realize exactly what she was doing at the time and loves you no more than she loves a pair of new socks, which with the income of a married highschool educated couple in today's society, is about all you will have money to buy. So I reccomend that first off you realize that what you are in right now is not love, nothing close, merely a teenage hormone shift that causes you to feel a deep compassion based purely off admirations of the other sex and goals of getting laid. Love is based off something far far more complicated and deeper based than sex, which in the teen mind is usually a primary thought ( dont say its not true because i know it is ). You also need to realize exactly how ridiculously pathetic your life would become if you married this girl straight out of highshool, income and money wise that is. Most jobs today require no less than a basic deploma from a community college and without at least that you can kiss any thoughts of living a rich life down the drain. And let me just say that while money cant buy happiness, a lack of money can sure take happiness away. That thought of "Oh he will love me and I will love her and love is all we will need!" thats crap and is possibly the most irresponsible and juvenille view you can take.

Essentially what I'm trying to tell you is that you are being heavily irresponsible an I dont suggest that you throw away your life over something as shifty as a teenage fake love relationship.

2006-07-09 01:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0 0

Very decsribable. But your description at age 15 will be nothing like what you will feel at age 16 and beyond. Wait if you possibly can. If it is as perfect as you say, it will fluorish and it will be waiting for you even more strongly than you can imagine now. Do not make the mistake of thinking that making a marriage: the marriage will NOT keep you in love. It just doesn't work that way.

2006-07-09 01:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by corsair24 2 · 0 0

welcome to love THAT WONDERFUL FEELING,, isn't it great?

if you are fifteen, this is the beginning of many a phase.. and it feels so great you have nothing to compare it to..

The complicating thing is, people will say you are so young, go slow there will be more love coming up,, and you think "NO WAY" t know this is the one and only, it is too strong to be causual, i would die for this person, etc etc,

ALL i can say is, it is part of your growing up stage, just like learning to drive, and getting a license, and all kinds of things that are around the corner,
it is not the one and only, noone knows anything for sure, but in todays world, and all the excitement, entertainment, school, goals dreams jobs, and fun, it would be a SAD LIFE IF THIS IS WHERE IT BEGINS AND STOPPED,, enjoy your youth, and your passion, i am very happy it feels so good, to you , and like other people who answered you the other side of this excitement is pain,
they go together, like milk with cereal, so prepare yourself, or better yet just
remember all of us "older folks" PROBABLY ARE SINCERE, and if you don't
like the advice you are getting that is part of the program,, you will say "yea but"
OR "thid is different" AND YES IT IS ALLL DIFFERENT, BUT, there is a Universal Law of LOVE AND LIFE, AND YOU ARE JUST IN PHASE ONE LIKE KINDERGARTEN,, ENJOY YOURSELF, BUT BE CAREFUL, AND NEVER THINK ABOUT LOVING SOMEONE SO MUCH YOU WOULD DIE FOR THEM..
THATS not necessary, so write your poems, keep a journal, and stay positive,

have fun

2006-07-09 01:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0 0

I think it varies for different people. But the first test for real love is the hurt test. Does it ever cause you pain. If not, it's probably not. Don't rush, your wonderful feeling gets more complex and more enjoyable with time.

2006-07-09 01:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0 0

WHAT IS LOVE ???? IS SOMETHING YOU FEEL OR IS IT SOMETHING YOU WORK AT????? TELL ME IF YOU GET MARRIED HOW WILL YOU SUPPORT YOUR FUTURE WIFE??? DO YOU STILL GO TO SCHOOL OR DID YOU QUIT??? IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN, HOW WILL YOU FEED THEM WITHOUT A DECENT JOB OR SCHOOLING??? SLOW DOWN AND ENJOY PUBERTY==PLEASE!!!! YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH THE FEELING OF LOVE AND NOT THE OTHER PERSON----CHILL OUT & DON'T LET YOUR EMOTIONS CONTROL YOU. YOU CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS &FEELINGS AND SPEND TIME AWAY FROM YOUR G/F TO SEE IF YOU'RE INTERESTED IN SOMEONE ELSE. GIVE YOUSELF TIME!!!!!

2006-07-21 22:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

you may have a genuine feeling about this person and that is all good, but to tell you the truth, there will be more and don't settle for your first love. Promise there will be more

2006-07-22 18:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by kimber69 2 · 0 0

that just it you cant describe it you just feel it. try a poem. but word or any thing of that matter cant describe true love. but you can try. i am an expert at it. i will happpily make one that you can give to him. just click my avatar pick and contact me.

2006-07-09 01:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It call obsession. Marriage....? Waht? What more important what you can give to each other not what they give to/for you.

2006-07-22 22:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by arburndragon 2 · 0 0

no its not. that is the feeling i get around my friends boyfriend!!!

2006-07-09 01:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_thang_in_da_bed15 2 · 0 0

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